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The Emu's won.
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Literally the most scary idea... ever.
I hate emu's. Any large flightless bird (besides Big Bird and penguins) are evil in my books.
*shudder*
 
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You know Mr Cody I'm not going to lie, I looked for the dislike button for you. Where is the thumbs down? The "Don't approve", "unfriendly", "flightless and frightening"?!

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You know Mr Cody I'm not going to lie, I looked for the dislike button for you. Where is the thumbs down? The "Don't approve", "unfriendly", "flightless and frightening"?!

:( my bad lol <3
 
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Im so annoyed with my tablet,For some reason google wont recognize my password
and even after changing it wont sync to my account. This means right now I cannot watch youtube or
go to my google play store.I hope tomorrow things work fine again,I mean I can use youtube on my pc
but its inconvenient that it wont work right on my tablet right now.
 
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That ... was sarcasm, right?
Yes, that was sarcasm. Traci is one of my best friends, and she didn't deserve to be treated like that by her brothers and sisters in Christ. She was alienated away from the only Christian community she had in her life. Sorry if I find that upsetting.

I am not calling any single person out, or singling anyone out. And I'm sorry if my sarcasm offends anyone.

At one time, I was also very close to Traveler, and I'm also very sorry to see her go.
 
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Yes, that was sarcasm. Traci is one of my best friends, and she didn't deserve to be treated like that by her brothers and sisters in Christ. She was alienated away from the only Christian community she had in her life. Sorry if I find that upsetting.

I am not calling any single person out, or singling anyone out. And I'm sorry if my sarcasm offends anyone.

At one time, I was also very close to Traveler, and I'm also very sorry to see her go.
Treated like what exactly? As far as I am aware it was her choice to leave! No one forced her to leave or asked her.

AND traveller isn't here to defend herself! So can we stop being her up!
 
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Had a rough night tonight. Everything just sort of converged on me at once and I had a mini-panic attack and was feeling overwhelmed with everything. I'm sure I'll feel better in the morning :)
 
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Had a rough night tonight. Everything just sort of converged on me at once and I had a mini-panic attack and was feeling overwhelmed with everything. I'm sure I'll feel better in the morning :)
Ah, hope you feel better in the morning, sorry to hear.
 
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Treated like what exactly? As far as I am aware it was her choice to leave! No one forced her to leave or asked her.

AND traveller isn't here to defend herself! So can we stop being her up!
Like she was either trying to lure men in with immodest dress- just showing off her assets- or some kind of narcissist who needed people to look at her. She was body shamed and bullied.

And I wasn't pointing a finger at Traveler, I was lamenting that she left too. Because she was my friend.
 
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Like she was either trying to lure men in with immodest dress- just showing off her assets- or some kind of narcissist who needed people to look at her. She was body shamed and bullied.

And I wasn't pointing a finger at Traveler, I was lamenting that she left too. Because she was my friend.

Again traveler isn't her and of course you were pointing the finger because of what traveler posted in the thread we also knew since you are like puppy dog with Ariel that of course now you say traveler WAS your friend and what she said was so awful! She and anyone else wasn't body shaming Ariel!


But this is not facebook or Snapchat or twitter or a thing else to build your memories on!

Yet again we have people arguing over sexualisation of the women because that is what it is! the people who had issues over it are actually worried about women can see what the damage can cause because yeah we are women!

Maybe Ariel is young but trust me as a older lady I did the same and thought it was and then realise why I was doing it not because I was owning myself but because I wanted approval from society owning your body is actually when you don't need to post 20 pictures when you can walk outside naked and don't care what people say and not run away because the min you run away or get bothered by what they say means you are seeking approval!

Ariel made a choice to leave and She is not becoming some hero you are trying to make her out to be, while you try and fry the rest of us!

Don't worry I am asking myself to be banned from CF because like traveler I need a break from this site! I don't want too see girls pouting in outfits or posting this my hot mess and watching guys being really creepy have you notice none of the guys post 20 odd pictures or get the same reaction!

Am really tried of this site at the moment and the tension that is building up! It feels like them and us! At least I will show my hand like traveler and don't be sneaky and have a man speak for me! Because if you are truly body shamed you would speak for yourself not via a man
 
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What's ironic is that every year their family was known to have a giant pig roast and would invite all kinds of people over to eat a big pig.

I wonder what the pet pig thought of that, honestly.:mmh:
 
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Had a rough night tonight. Everything just sort of converged on me at once and I had a mini-panic attack and was feeling overwhelmed with everything. I'm sure I'll feel better in the morning :)

I hope so, too, sir.
 
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Nobody body shamed anybody. Look up the definition of body shaming. Here, I'll do it for you:

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It was valid to express disapproval over a cleavage-bearing dress like that, even if it wasn't her intention to put it on display like it was, and believe me, I wasn't the only one taking issue with it. At least six different people didn't think it was a wise to post a picture like that. Even if her intentions were 100% pure.

All I posted was a GIF that demonstrated exactly my reaction (Nate Fillion thinking he should say something, then thinking 'never mind'). Then you guys decided to lace it with nuance and imply that I have issues against women, or some ridiculous crap like that. Get real.

This whole "white knight" / "Don Quixote" shtick has gone overboard.

How's THAT for direct?
 
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I don't want too see girls pouting in outfits or posting this my hot mess and watching guys being really creepy have you notice none of the guys post 20 odd pictures or get the same reaction!

*just now noticed all this nonsense fighting*

What on Earth are you talking about? What guy was being creepy about it? Have I missed something here?

And, um, guys, seriously. That was the barest glimpse of Miss Ariel's assets in that picture. I didn't even notice it period until a few days later when I saw that other people were getting bent out of shape (from both sides of this should-have-been-non issue). It was a perfectly classy and non-threatening image of herself, and I have no idea how cries of over-sexualization of women and (apparently) worries of guys drooling all over her picture and becoming feral beasts driven by pure instinctual lust even got started, here. We're not being very adult-like over this, I'm sorry.
 
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