marineimaging
Texas Baptist now living in Colorado
- Jul 14, 2014
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There's still a confused teenager inside me, wondering who the heck my authority figures were supposed to be. I come from a highly unstable upbringing, and I'm diagnosed with PTSD as a result of it. My mother (married nine times, not including the live-in relationships she never made it to the altar with) expected me to obey some man she'd been dating for all of a day or two, as if he were my father. And then next year, a different one. If I questioned or resisted, her angry response was that he was an adult, and I was going to do as he says. This extended to giving him permission to punish as he saw fit, up to and including beating. Again, I'm talking about men we barely knew.
It was just mind boggling to me. If I was supposed to obey all men as if they were my father, then what was so special about my father? Why did God single out, obey your parents, if you're supposed to obey all adults anyway?
I can understand your having trouble with this. Your mother was not a responsible adult nor were the men she lived with. If you were told to obey them then your mother was using their presence as a crutch for her insecurities. These are NOT the elders the Bible refers to. The Bible is referring to Elders in the church or community who have been placed there by the community to act as judges and leaders. Respected for their insight and wisdom. Having a heart for God and His righteousness. Men who read scripture, are discerning and caring for the community, who desire to do good and be good. If this idea of these men stir a negative response in you then you can bet you have been impressed by Satan, the fallen angel, the devil who goes against all of God's teachings. God did not want us floundering around and gave us instructions. If you have trouble in your heart then go to the scriptures with a friend or a legitimate, Bible believing, Bible loving, Bible following pastor and take time to learn what the Word of God says about such things. And don't be mislead. The Word of God is ALL of the words, not some taken out of context.
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