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James of Arc

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What's going down today?

The pac man is circling on the black highway and the James man is wrenching on his flying carpet and rolling with the stones. Life is good.
 
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Whoa. Hold up. Nobody argued this?

Doubt Isn't a negative thing, if you understand it. Doubt is merely an indicator you are asking the right questions. Don't be afraid of your brain doing its job - analyzing situations, and theorizing possible conclusions. Foresight is the more positive word.

In short. You are either lying or ignorant if you claim you don't have some amount of doubt with -every- decision you make.

The person you choose to spend the rest of your life with is the exception?

Phew.
I think some in-depth discussions could be had about it but I see your point, hopefully Ariel does too.
 
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OMM: when or how do you know you're ready for marriage? A partner can never be perfect.. at what point do you accept the imperfections and choose to grow together in marriage vs continuing to date? What kinds of imperfections are deal breakers and what kinds are normal? I'm wishing I had dated more men about now so I could be more informed

It takes more than love to make a marriage.

For me it goes something like this, not exactly like this but in general its like this........

First he must be a strong Christian man who will lead you in prayer ever day and make sure you get to Church on time every service.

Then you must see if God has made him ready by giving him a great job to where he can support both of you and future children plus a little for savings. Actually a career not just a job.

Then you have to see if he has old bills laying around as it is not for you to inherent his old debt if something happens.

Then make sure he can afford a house for you guys to build your life in.

It more than feelings, its lots of things.

Then it takes lots of work staying together.
 
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Everyone, if I may interrupt, I would like to inform you that I intend to be apart from the singles community for a while. I ... need to deal with something that was at first only mildly troubling throughout my time here but has now come against me in force a few days ago and I would like to try the possible solution of just being away from the origin of that trouble for a time. Perhaps if I am not here to be reminded for just a while, then it will go away. I am not sure, but I have to do something short of leaving you all entirely, which of course I have no desire to do as you have all treated me very well here.

So, for at least one month if not the rest of the year, I will be absent of all activity here except for the Bible reading thread I began and intend to follow through faithfully to the end.

Just so you all are well assured, I promise you that my desire to be scarce for a bit isn't because of one of you here bullying me or anything like that. I have no resentment against anyone personally. Just some things a resolute knight must find a way to deal with honorably. ^-^
 
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Everyone, if I may interrupt, I would like to inform you that I intend to be apart from the singles community for a while. I ... need to deal with something that was at first only mildly troubling throughout my time here but has now come against me in force a few days ago and I would like to try the possible solution of just being away from the origin of that trouble for a time. Perhaps if I am not here to be reminded for just a while, then it will go away. I am not sure, but I have to do something short of leaving you all entirely, which of course I have no desire to do as you have all treated me very well here.

So, for at least one month if not the rest of the year, I will be absent of all activity here except for the Bible reading thread I began and intend to follow through faithfully to the end.

Just so you all are well assured, I promise you that my desire to be scarce for a bit isn't because of one of you here bullying me or anything like that. I have no resentment against anyone personally. Just some things a resolute knight must find a way to deal with honorably. ^-^

I hope things get better for you very quickly. We really enjoy having you here.
 
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I'm sorry to hear that, but I'll look forward to further posts in your Bible reading thread.

In the mean time, say hello to my little friend, Ronin. He's a character, if you can manage to see him.
 
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Wham! With wonder, a wily wunderkind both well-intentioned and wicked for words on the world wide web! Today I whomped on this topic to whoop you all with wonderful wit, wrinkly art and wooden acting for this day. I wrecked this wondrous film with a whopper of a warm up for an attempt at writing. Why, I should have done well with my winning ways of wacky humour that has worked in making you all weep and wail with laughter on my weblogs! Before this wayfarer walks away to go to Wal-Mart to grab waffles, wax candles and a wheelbarrow for whatever I have whipped up in my woodshed, I'd just like to say...

You can call me Wayholka!

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Happy Guy Fawkes Day!
 
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Wham! With wonder, a wily wunderkind both well-intentioned and wicked for words on the world wide web! Today I whomped on this topic to whoop you all with wonderful wit, wrinkly art and wooden acting for this day. I wrecked this wondrous film with a whopper of a warm up for an attempt at writing. Why, I should have done well with my winning ways of wacky humour that has worked in making you all weep and wail with laughter on my weblogs! Before this wayfarer walks away to go to Wal-Mart to grab waffles, wax candles and a wheelbarrow for whatever I have whipped up in my woodshed, I'd just like to say...

You can call me Wayholka!

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Happy Guy Fawkes Day!
Voilà! In view, a humble vaudevillian veteran, cast vicariously as both victim and villian by the vicissitudes of Fate. This visage, no mere veneer of vanity, is a vestige of the vox populi, now vacant, vanished. However, this valorous visitation of a by-gone vexation, stands vivified and has vowed to vanquish these venal and virulent vermin vanguarding vice and vouchsafing the violently vicious and voracious violation of volition. The only verdict is vengence; a vendetta, held as a votive, not in vain, for the value and veracity of such shall one day vindicate the vigilant and the virtuous. Verily, this vichyssoise of verbiage veers most verbose, so let me simply add that it is my very good honor to meet you and you may call me V.
 
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Just editing my post to ask for prayers from everyone. Please pray that God would help me to find peace in my situation and that I am given strength and endurance in my faith and walk with Him.
 
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I am trying to figure out what colors I want to paint my motorcycle this year.

I have it apart to paint and to go thru the mechanicals but I am not for sure what to paint it. Should I start a what color to paint it thread?

My thoughts as of now are.....(sheet metal means gas tank and fenders and oil tank).

Black frame and black sheet metal.

Black frame white sheet metal.

Black frame and yellow sheet metal.

Black frame and a dark green sheet metal.

I may do something like this.......
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or I may buy an aftermarket hard tail frame and make a shovelhead chopper kind of like this.......
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What is your vote? Any suggestions?
 
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