• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

How can the grace of God be resisted by some yet received by others?

EmSw

White Horse Rider
Apr 26, 2014
6,434
718
✟74,044.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Married
LOL, you are afraid to read the Bible in context and say what it says.

If you refuse to read the Bible in context and say what it says, then it is your ears and eyes that refuse God's word.

I have made my point. Go to bed and think about what God's word says.

I see you can't prove you were chosen for salvation. We will leave it there. Prove you were chosen, then believers can have fellowship with believers.
 
Upvote 0

sdowney717

Newbie
Apr 20, 2013
8,712
2,022
✟117,598.00
Faith
Christian
This doesn't show He chose you to salvation. It's all a lottery pick to be chosen according to Calvinist. And if He just chose you to follow Him, how can we believe anything you say?

Matthew 22:13-14New King James Version (NKJV)
13 Then the king said to the servants, ‘Bind him hand and foot, take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

14 “For many are called, but few are chosen.”

The ones not chosen go to hell, while the ones who remain with the King (Christ) are chosen.

Emsw your in direct conflict with the scripture, again, God chose for salvation certain people.

2 Thessalonians 2:13-17New King James Version (NKJV)
Stand Fast
13 But we are bound to give thanks to God always for you, brethren beloved by the Lord, because God from the beginning chose you for salvation through sanctification by the Spirit and belief in the truth, 14 to which He called you by our gospel, for the obtaining of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. 15 Therefore, brethren, stand fast and hold the traditions which you were taught, whether by word or our epistle.

16 Now may our Lord Jesus Christ Himself, and our God and Father, who has loved us and given us everlasting consolation and good hope by grace, 17 comfort your hearts and establish you in every good word and work.
 
Upvote 0

EmSw

White Horse Rider
Apr 26, 2014
6,434
718
✟74,044.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Married
Matthew 22:13-14New King James Version (NKJV)
13 Then the king said to the servants, ‘Bind him hand and foot, take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

14 “For many are called, but few are chosen.”

The ones not chosen go to hell, while the ones who remain with the King (Christ) are chosen.

Emsw your in direct conflict with the scripture, again, God chose for salvation certain people.

These weren't called for salvation; these were called to the wedding.

But, let's say they are called for salvation. The word call means invited. Everyone is invited to salvation. In the parable, we see many who were first invited, through their own free choice, did not attend the wedding after being invited. They started making excuses to not attend. So the king says they are not worthy and destroyed them. Could you please tell us who the first ones invited were? And please tell us why God's invitation for salvation was thwarted?

When these who were first invited did not come, the king told his servants to go into the highways and as many as they find, invite to the wedding. In other words, invite as many as they could find to salvation. The good and the bad were invited and came to the wedding. However, when the king came to see the guests, one did not have a wedding garment on. We see this man did not prepare himself for the wedding. He did not put on the 'new' garments provided by the king. Instead, he entered the wedding with his 'old' garments on.

I would like to see what you all think represents the wedding garment, and why the one without the wedding garment was cast into outer darkness. He was certainly called, and he answered the call, but he was not chosen.

There is a parallel parable in Luke 14, which speaks of being called to be a disciple of Christ. There Jesus tells us that if we do not bear our own cross, and come after Him, we cannot be His disciple. Some on here do not believe a disciple of Jesus is saved. I would like to see other's thoughts on this.
 
Upvote 0

EmSw

White Horse Rider
Apr 26, 2014
6,434
718
✟74,044.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Married
Matthew 22:13-14New King James Version (NKJV)
13 Then the king said to the servants, ‘Bind him hand and foot, take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

14 “For many are called, but few are chosen.”

The ones not chosen go to hell, while the ones who remain with the King (Christ) are chosen.

Emsw your in direct conflict with the scripture, again, God chose for salvation certain people.

2 Thessalonians 2:13-17New King James Version (NKJV)
Stand Fast
13 But we are bound to give thanks to God always for you, brethren beloved by the Lord, because God from the beginning chose you for salvation through sanctification by the Spirit and belief in the truth, 14 to which He called you by our gospel, for the obtaining of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. 15 Therefore, brethren, stand fast and hold the traditions which you were taught, whether by word or our epistle.

16 Now may our Lord Jesus Christ Himself, and our God and Father, who has loved us and given us everlasting consolation and good hope by grace, 17 comfort your hearts and establish you in every good word and work.

Oh yeah sdowney, can you prove you were chosen to salvation?
 
Upvote 0

sdowney717

Newbie
Apr 20, 2013
8,712
2,022
✟117,598.00
Faith
Christian
These weren't called for salvation; these were called to the wedding.

But, let's say they are called for salvation. The word call means invited. Everyone is invited to salvation. In the parable, we see many who were first invited, through their own free choice, did not attend the wedding after being invited. They started making excuses to not attend. So the king says they are not worthy and destroyed them. Could you please tell us who the first ones invited were? And please tell us why God's invitation for salvation was thwarted?

When these who were first invited did not come, the king told his servants to go into the highways and as many as they find, invite to the wedding. In other words, invite as many as they could find to salvation. The good and the bad were invited and came to the wedding. However, when the king came to see the guests, one did not have a wedding garment on. We see this man did not prepare himself for the wedding. He did not put on the 'new' garments provided by the king. Instead, he entered the wedding with his 'old' garments on.

I would like to see what you all think represents the wedding garment, and why the one without the wedding garment was cast into outer darkness. He was certainly called, and he answered the call, but he was not chosen.

There is a parallel parable in Luke 14, which speaks of being called to be a disciple of Christ. There Jesus tells us that if we do not bear our own cross, and come after Him, we cannot be His disciple. Some on here do not believe a disciple of Jesus is saved. I would like to see other's thoughts on this.

The wedding garments the chosen ones wear are the righteousness of Christ.
http://www.spurgeongems.org/vols34-36/chs2024.pdf
 
Upvote 0

Hammster

Carpe Chaos
Site Supporter
Apr 5, 2007
144,404
27,057
57
New Jerusalem
Visit site
✟1,962,858.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Reformed
Marital Status
Married
Isn't that your method of answering?

If it's good for the goose, it's good for the gander.
No it's not. I try not to answer a question with a question (though I'm not perfect).

Do you believe there will be unredeemed at the wedding?
 
Upvote 0

Hammster

Carpe Chaos
Site Supporter
Apr 5, 2007
144,404
27,057
57
New Jerusalem
Visit site
✟1,962,858.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Reformed
Marital Status
Married
How does the parable support a Calvinist viewpoint?
Because only the ones who were supposed to be there were dragged there. The one who showed up on his own was kicked out.
 
Upvote 0

EmSw

White Horse Rider
Apr 26, 2014
6,434
718
✟74,044.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Married
Because only the ones who were supposed to be there were dragged there. The one who showed up on his own was kicked out.

It doesn't say he showed up on his own; he was called (invited) by the king's servants.
 
Upvote 0

EmSw

White Horse Rider
Apr 26, 2014
6,434
718
✟74,044.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Married
Not according to the parable.

Are you reading Little Red Riding Hood?

Matthew 22
8 Then saith he to his servants, The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy.
9 Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, bid to the marriage.
10 So those servants went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests.
 
Upvote 0

MennoSota

Sola Gratia
Dec 11, 2015
2,535
964
US
✟30,074.00
Faith
Calvinist
Marital Status
Private
I see you can't prove you were chosen for salvation. We will leave it there. Prove you were chosen, then believers can have fellowship with believers.

MennSota, until you can prove to us, you have been chosen for salvation, then there is nothing any of us can say which will convince you of the truth.
I see you have moved the goal posts and refused to read God's word in both Romans and Ephesians.

There is zero need for me to prove I am chosen. God knows and that is sufficient.
God has filled the scriptures with His sovereign choice. The fact that you willfully ignore God's word is much more important. Why do you willfully ignore the fact that God openly tells you He chooses?
I am still waiting for you to explain what God is saying in Romans 9, Ephesians 1 and Ephesians 2. I suspect you will continue to avoid the word of God.
 
Upvote 0

MennoSota

Sola Gratia
Dec 11, 2015
2,535
964
US
✟30,074.00
Faith
Calvinist
Marital Status
Private
Isn't that your method of answering?

If it's good for the goose, it's good for the gander.
This is getting tough for you, isn't it.
You know, if you just let God's word be God's word, you can enjoy God's sovereign choice rather than fight it.
 
Upvote 0

Hammster

Carpe Chaos
Site Supporter
Apr 5, 2007
144,404
27,057
57
New Jerusalem
Visit site
✟1,962,858.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Reformed
Marital Status
Married
Are you reading Little Red Riding Hood?

Matthew 22
8 Then saith he to his servants, The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy.
9 Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, bid to the marriage.
10 So those servants went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests.
I'm reading it. The ones invited didn't come. (Read the verses that come before.)
 
Upvote 0