What's unfortunate is that not everyone is here for honest reasons.
I think your complaint is noted, but please understand that I'm not beginning this thread to deconvert anyone.
My set of beliefs are not better described as unbelief in God, but rather as a pending non-decision until I have some evidence or answers that I find satisfactory or plausible. That's generally the basis for any of our decisions about certain beliefs.
Likewise, I think it should be noted that I once was a believer for no other reason than a typical process that a believer goes through. For me it was educational experience at a young age, which I've progressed to college and seminary experience, and I've actually was preparing my life for some religious position in one way or another.
But, the higher my education on the subject matter got, the more it became obvious that there's a great deal of misrepresentation and obscurantism when it comes to explaining certain basics of Christian belief and what these actually translate in the real life.
Hence, the questions that I've had for a while never really been answered in a manner that would seem plausible.
For example, I keep asking people to share with me the stories about how Holy Spirit works exactly in their lives and how they know it's the Holy Spirit... and what I get is:
1) I get a verse pop in my head that helps me to guide through a situation.
2) I have a situation that goes my way after I pray
3) I get a feeling, or I've experienced some health recovery
Essentially, it doesn't really seem like anything other than projection of a belief system on a reality that's otherwise not much different form regular physical reality of non-belief.
In short, it seems to be rather an interpretation of events, rather than the reality of the events. Even in context of this forum, the reasons as to why Jesus left seem to be excuses rather than something worth considering.
To sum up:
1) People say that if he didn't leave then we wouldn't have faith:
I keep asking as to why faith is better than the real thing, and the answers seem to be to the likes of "we need to have faith in everything". But that's simply false. Faith is not a reliable means of making important decisions. We make decisions based on understanding of consequences, and such is a framework of our knowledge and not faith.
2) People give typical reasons given by Biblical writers
But none of these actually answer the question as to why any of these are better than the presence of Jesus on Earth... or at least visiting it in some visible manner to check back on people and offer some direction. Again, I don't see a 2000 year old account of what happened is viable enough to guide complexities of modern life. Biblical writers would think that a radio was a demon possessed box. Translating their cultural and scientific understanding to our day is obscene.
Hence, IT SEEMS LIKE, people write narrative and then write in excuses as to why Jesus is missing from reality, and then projecting interpretations that ascribe positive developments to some workings of Jesus or Holy Spirit without any viable means to show as to how these are any different from regular occurrences of these events, or giving any viable reason as to how they can even tell it was Jesus or Holy Spirit responsible.
The bottom line isn't that there are attempts to answer these questions, but that the answers given are not grounded in any viable reality beyond projecting one's own belief.
My suggestion is to start with non-belief and evaluate any given event described from that perspective.
That's the honest way of doing it, and I think that charge of dishonesty shouldn't be pointed in my direction in this case.