What's more important, Finding someone to give you their love or finding someone who will accept your love?
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Finding Love
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The first is more important, because you have the option to implement change.
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Sure. I'm a guy with a huge ego that my lover can
deflate with one careless word.
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Well, I don't have a huge ego, but but women have dashed me to pieces as well. Hopefully you have someone who understands you.
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I don´t understand what you mean when saying "accepting your love". Could you explain that, please?
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Maybe releasing your love to would be a better terminology. We all have love inside us and I suppose I'm not the only one to love someone in our past that did not love us and in the process felt badly because of the process.
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I don't know how you define romantic love. My idea when I see the word romantic is that it is an idealized version of whatever the prime is. I'm looking more into the idea of a personal acknowledge mt of a person and the desire to have that person in your life because of the person they are.
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Yeah, ok. The "desire" part is the important distinction, in my understanding.
Now that this has become clearer: When you desire something (attention, acknowledgement, positive emotions, sex, ...) from a person, then I think the answer to your question is "the latter, obviously".
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Are you talking about male-female relationship love? Both are incomplete. Which is more important, an oxygen tank without a spacesuit, or a spacesuit without an oxygen tank?
eudaimonia,
Mark
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Thank you for your response. We are talking first person here.
I loved Blade Runner. Surprising the date of his manufacturing..
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