Finding Love

[AHH who-stole-my-name]

What's more important, Finding someone to give you their love or finding someone who will accept your love?

 

[SkyWriting]

What's more important, Finding someone to give you their love or finding someone who will accept your love?

The first is more important, because you have the option to implement change.

 

[AHH who-stole-my-name]

The first is more important, because you have the option to implement change.

Change. Doesn't that assume there is something holding you back?

 

[SkyWriting]

Change. Doesn't that assume there is something holding you back?

Sure. I'm a guy with a huge ego that my lover can
deflate with one careless word.

 

[AHH who-stole-my-name]

Sure. I'm a guy with a huge ego that my lover can
deflate with one careless word.

Well, I don't have a huge ego, but but women have dashed me to pieces as well. Hopefully you have someone who understands you.

 

[quatona]

What's more important, Finding someone to give you their love or finding someone who will accept your love?

I don´t understand what you mean when saying "accepting your love". Could you explain that, please?

 

[AHH who-stole-my-name]

I don´t understand what you mean when saying "accepting your love". Could you explain that, please?

Maybe releasing your love to would be a better terminology. We all have love inside us and I suppose I'm not the only one to love someone in our past that did not love us and in the process felt badly because of the process.

 

[quatona]

Maybe releasing your love to would be a better terminology. We all have love inside us and I suppose I'm not the only one to love someone in our past that did not love us and in the process felt badly because of the process.

Are you talking romantic love here?

 

[AHH who-stole-my-name]

Are you talking romantic love here?

I don't know how you define romantic love. My idea when I see the word romantic is that it is an idealized version of whatever the prime is. I'm looking more into the idea of a personal acknowledge mt of a person and the desire to have that person in your life because of the person they are.

 

[quatona]

I don't know how you define romantic love. My idea when I see the word romantic is that it is an idealized version of whatever the prime is. I'm looking more into the idea of a personal acknowledge mt of a person and the desire to have that person in your life because of the person they are.

Yeah, ok. The "desire" part is the important distinction, in my understanding.
Now that this has become clearer: When you desire something (attention, acknowledgement, positive emotions, sex, ...) from a person, then I think the answer to your question is "the latter, obviously".

 

[Eudaimonist]

What's more important, Finding someone to give you their love or finding someone who will accept your love?

Are you talking about male-female relationship love? Both are incomplete. Which is more important, an oxygen tank without a spacesuit, or a spacesuit without an oxygen tank?


eudaimonia,

Mark

 

[AHH who-stole-my-name]

Are you talking about male-female relationship love? Both are incomplete. Which is more important, an oxygen tank without a spacesuit, or a spacesuit without an oxygen tank?


eudaimonia,

Mark

Thank you for your response. We are talking first person here.

I loved Blade Runner. Surprising the date of his manufacturing..