I think that having free will isn't an excuse to intentionally do bad things to other persons or to deprive them of life. I don't think anyone is saying that an unborn person is more important than the pregnant woman, though the unborn person is more vulnerable.
Abortion is profoundly wrong even in cases of rape, since the child is still a human person. But if a woman has freely chosen to engage in sex, and in doing so conceives a child, then she has already freely chosen to be pregnant with human life. Likewise the father, in freely choosing to engage in sex, has chosen to be a responsible for the life he conceived.
I don't think a man has any idea of the profound violation that rape causes a woman to feel. Much less when that rape causes a pregnancy. No, that zygote isn't responsible for the rape however, that woman that survived the rape has every right not to want to carry that seeded reminder of her rapist inside her body for nearly a year.
It is a choice. We will argue this issue till the cows come home and no one will change anyone elses mind on the issue.
The point is, women will always choose. They chose when birth control and abortion both were unlawful in America. And women who sought abortions that weren't medically safe often died as a result.
I've met men who said that was good! That those women deserved to die and that right there vacated their argument as someone who was proactive in the name of life. They were sadists and misogynists but they sure as all get out weren't about life or the quality of life.
Abortion is legal now and women have the right to choose that for themselves. That people are opposed is a given. However, their opposition shouldn't get in the way of medically safe elective surgery so that a woman's life continues after she's decided for her own self to make a choice others don't agree with.
If people who were so adamantly opposed to women's choices worked to give homes to those homeless children women chose to give birth to and then abandon to the system, they would certainly do more than give lip service to being opposed to women's personal sovereignty. They'd give a life and hope to babies looking for both.
How many here who are adamantly opposed to a woman's right to choose, even when she's been raped, have done that?
I'm not asking for a written answer I'm asking for a personal accounting that walks the talk that says more babies should be born even when it is against a woman's will. That the law should force a woman to remain pregnant against her will.
Women in that way are expendable because sperm has more rights in her body than she has as the one with the body.
That's not proactive life advocacy. That's relegating women to less than second class citizenship and instead trumpeting them as having no other use but to be an incubator. Because they're at fault for letting sperm enter them in the first place.
When the responsibility of that unprotected man is never given a second thought.
Women will never go back to the dark ages when our choices risked our lives. And for those who think a raped woman must have her rapists seed and carry it to term, I dare you , dare you, to volunteer at a rape crisis center and learn what rape is. And what it does to a woman. It isn't sex! It's violation and physical abuse using the male organ as a weapon in a vile violent sexual assault.
Walk your talk. Don't preach to a woman when you have a penis. Walk your talk. It is our body it is our choice. Your rights as a man stop where our body begins.
And please please don't use the religious argument. I'm very familiar with the bibles words and when god wasn't pro-life it is impossible to invoke his word , when there are no scriptures prohibiting abortion, to argue against a woman's right to choose. Especially given the less than status women held and hold in the religion dedicated to father god.
Real world, not spiritual ideology, is the issue here. Women are people! And our choice is none of your business. If you don't want a woman to have to choose, get a vasectomy or wear a condom. If you believe every pregnancy should come to term, adopt those who did come to term and were then thrown into the government system waiting to have a life after they were given life.
It's easy to say, "HAVE THAT BABY NO MATTER WHAT WOMAN!"
It's harder to give a life to that baby that one demanded come into a world where not even their mother wanted them.
Proactive for life?
Prove it.