Who? Tree of Life? Er, no, probably not — but we seem to agree, like most Christians I know, that abortion is immoral.
No, consent is a single act, like anything else, and you cannot change your mind unless there is a specific clause for that. Here are a few examples:
- If you purchase a product at a shop, you must pay for it and you receive the product. You are not allowed to give back the product and get the money back, unless the shop specifically allows for it (and, if they do allow for it, it is generally only upon certain conditions: that the product is undamaged, that you keep the receipt, and that it is returned within a specified number of weeks). Unless the country's law requires it, no shop is obligated to allow you to return the product after you have purchased.
- If you sell your house, after you have signed the contract, you are not allowed to claim the house back, unless the contract has a specific clause that allows for it under certain conditions, similarly to the previous example.
- If I promise that I will pick you up at the airport, I am obligated to do so, by word of honour. I cannot simply just change my mind and say, ‘As it turns out, I don't want to pick you up right now.’ When I promised I would, I bound myself to this commitment that I would pick you up, regardless of what I wanted or how my mind would change meanwhile. It is implicit that, unless something very bad happens which physically prevents me from going (like excessive traffic or an accident) or something else more necessary or more urgent appears unpredictably (like a relative suffering a heart attack or a very important work-related meeting) — in which cases you would surely understand —, I am forced to go and pick you up, regardless of anything else, even if I change my mind.
Similarly, upon the moment the woman has sex, the understands that, as a result, a foetus may or may not be formed within her body — and she is obligated to respect the foetus's rights if this happens, because she has agreed to take the risk.
Yes, it can. When you allow something to happen, you become responsible for it. If you put a product for sale for a specified price, you are accepting the possibility that someone will buy it; if someone does request to buy it, you cannot cancel and say, ‘Ah! Sorry! As it turns out, I don't want to sell it any more.’ You can only do that before anyone approaches to purchase your product: before the first customer comes in to buy it, you can still cancel; but, after someone has seen it and is going into your shop to buy it and offers you the money in exchange for the product, you cannot cancel it any more, since, when you put up the announcement, you were expecting precisely that.
Similarly, when the woman has sex, she accepts the possibility of the formation of the foetus. She can still attempt to cancel the formation of the foetus before conception (that is why there are emergency pills) — but, after conception has taken place, it is too late and she must stay true to the contract she made by allowing that to happen, even if she has changed her mind afterwards.
But, nevertheless, that possibility exists; and, upon sexual intercourse, the woman agrees that,
if a foetus is formed, she will let it live. Of course it may not happen! But the agreement only has its effect in the case scenario that it does happen. Take my previous example: when you put up the announcement that you are selling that product, you do not know whether any interested buyers will show up; if they do not, you are free from your bond and you may remove the announcement at any time; but, after someone has shown up, you are not allowed to remove the announcement.
Think of another example: suppose you are driving a car and, upon approaching a curve, you do not slow down below the maximum safe speed, but instead you keep driving faster than you should. As you know, there is the risk that the wheels will lose adherence to the road and that your car will slide and crash. Of course it may not happen! If you are lucky enough and it does not happen, you are free from any criminal charges. But, if it happens and someone is injured, you will be prosecuted for injuring a person, and you may go to jail or be forced to pay for the person's expenses; if it happens and someone is killed, you will be prosecuted for involuntary manslaughter, and you may go to jail. Maybe you did not
directly want to kill anyone; however, since you have committed, consciously and not subjected to coercion, an act which, with your knowledge, might lead to that person's death (even if there was also the possibility that it would not), if that person is killed as a result of your act, you will be held responsible for it.