Awesome.I'm fat. My husband's fat. We love, adore, and desire each other.
Only if you two are the only married couple here./thread

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Awesome.I'm fat. My husband's fat. We love, adore, and desire each other.
Only if you two are the only married couple here./thread
I'm curious then, since I don't know a lot about this kind of stuff, wouldn't the juice be technically better, since it has "natural" sugar vs. the soda that has not only chemicals that can damage our system, but added sugar?
Thanks for your post - but the last is incorrect. If by tissue you refer to "muscle tissue", it is incorrect. Unsaturated fats and carbohydrates are the human body's primary sources of energy. It is only a deficit of these that will force the body to start breaking down stored (saturated) fat. In the absence of all of these - it is then that it starts to break down muscle tissue.
It's a hierarchy of needs, basically. One needs to be able to use their muscles (to walk, type whatever - just move) before they need the stored body fat. If muscle tissue was one of the first things to go, a great many of us would be doomed to be...well...immovable blobs, lol - " I lost my muscle and I can't get up!"
My post was specifically about the claim that someone could eat 900 calories a day and gain weight. Have you ever heard of such a case?
What if you eat the rind afterward?
Or better yet, look at footage from American before 1950. Almost nobody was heavy.
As a corollary, it seems to be expected that someone will gain a significant amount of weight after babies or after x number of years. But why?
There really is no physical reason that a 5'6" 150lb woman must become a 5'6" 190lb woman after her children are born or after she hits a certain age. Just like there's no physical reason that a man who gets a desk job has to gain 50 lbs.
There are certainly medical conditions that contribute directly to weight gain, and those should be treated as such. But that is rather rare even though every other person carrying an extra hundred pounds blames their thyroid or metabolism even though they haven't been diagnosed as such.
Have we become so accustomed to fat gain that we think it is perfectly normal for an adult to keep growing and growing and growing?
How much of the food back then was loaded with the crap we put into it today, like preservatives, sodium, sugars of various kinds, dyes, fats, sauces, etc. Combine a healthier availability of foods with a better economy (it's cheaper to eat weiners and Krap Dinner than it is to eat a healthy, organic flavourful diet), and much more active jobs and playgrounds, and yes, you have fewer heavy people. But your dreams of the 1950's ideal does not apply today. There are far more reasons for the obesity epidemic than meets the eye, and it includes not only what we put into our bodies and how they react to what we put into them, but also includes the brainwashing of media and economy.
When talking about body fat and appearance, this thread reinforces the contemporary nonsense that gaining weight is expected and normal, and there's not much you can do about it.
Wrong. Becoming a whale is normal in today's western (specifically, American) culture. It is unique to the last 50 years. Eating food is tasty, and doing stuff is hard, and that's pretty much all there is too it.
There's an extremely simple way to test this theory. Look at people in other countries without tons of uber-calorie food and SUV's everywhere. Or better yet, look at footage from American before 1950. Almost nobody was heavy. The idea that it's inevitable is complete nonsense and just a way to dismiss abuse of the physical body God has given you.
Thyroid and other issues account for almost nobody who is heavy. The fact that this would even be raised as a real argument, shows how far we are willing to go to justify self-abuse and the immediate gratification of tasty things and being sedentary.
It seems so obvious that the starting point for understanding the obesity epidemic should be – what changed in the late 1970’s/early 1980’s? Was there one thing that happened that could explain the sudden and dramatic increase in obesity?
Yes there was. In 1977 the USA changed its public health diet advice. In 1983 the UK followed suit. A more accurate description would be that we did a complete U-turn in our diet advice from “Farinaceous and vegetable foods are fattening, and saccharine matters are especially so” to “base your meals on starchy foods”. Obesity has increased up to ten fold since – coincidence or cause?
Throughout the tens of thousands of years before the 1966 data, there is no record of an obesity problem, let alone an epidemic. Suddenly, in evolutionary terms, and dramatically, in amounts, obesity levels increased from 2-3% in the 1970’s to 25% today. Two thirds of UK citizens are now overweight or obese.
The USA started from a slightly higher base and displayed a virtually identical trend, with 70% of Americans currently overweight or obese:~The Obesity Epidemic | Introduction
When talking about body fat and appearance, this thread reinforces the contemporary nonsense that gaining weight is expected and normal, and there's not much you can do about it.
In countries where obesity is very low, the people exist on rice as the staple of their diet, and rarely eat meat, just small amounts of fish, and also vegetables. And yet obesity is now becoming a problem even in China. Did McDonalds open up franchises in China lately?
I saw this too. They also said being heavy is a sign of middle class there, while here it is more a sign of lower-income - after all, when my son was young, it was far cheaper for me to take him to McDonalds to eat than it was to make a nutritious meal at home for him.It's fascinating that you mention this, because I literally just a few days ago, watched a documentary about this. And YES, China has recently (within the last 25 years) allowed fast food franchises to open up. And the numbers of obese people are rapidly growing as a result.
Published on Nov 21, 2012
The wheat of today is not the wheat of our mothers or grandmothers. Modern wheat is the product of genetic manipulations that have transformed its properties. Modern wheat is now a 2-foot tall, high-yield semi-dwarf strain, different in both appearance and multiple biochemical features from traditional wheat. Introduction of this new strain of wheat was associated with the appearance of a long list of health problems, along with weight gain and diabetes.
According to Dr. Davis, saying goodbye to all things wheat provides outsized and unexpected health benefits, from weight loss, to relief from acid reflux and bowel urgency, to reversal of diabetes, migraine headaches, and learning disabilities in children.
Dr. William Davis is author of the #1 New york Times bestselling book, Wheat Belly: Lose the wheat, lose the weight and find your path back to health (Rodale, 2011), now debuting internationally in over ten foreign languages. Wheat belly has helped spark a nationwide reconsideration of the conventional advice to "eat more healthy whole grains."