Here's the tough thing for people like me.
At my former forum, I was treated badly because I was too Messianic. I'm basically being told by a couple of people here to take a hike because I'm not Messianic enough.
Seeing and remembering all of the battles that took place, I'd not let anyone sweat you on issues which were never yours to deal with to begin with - and technically, what you are about is what is a MAJOR part of the forum when it comes to those known as
Bridge Builders:
folks who are seeking to be that bridge between the Church and the Jewish Nation, or who may be seeking help in building a bridge within their own family , struggling to live between a chasm of two faiths.
There are plenty of long time members who've noted that others such as yourself should not have to contend with people going against the rules in claiming you're not Messianic enough simply because you disagree with others at certain points or don't act uniform - in light of how many disagreements have occurred between even those who often may want to do what Sister Tishri warned against with the witch hunts.
Some of it is similar to the dynamic of having someone in the neighborhood entrance saying to others "We don't want your kind here!!!" when the fact is that there are numerous others in the neighborhood who've long disagreed and actually welcome the people seeking a home. You learn to move past people who don't want you and go for those who do since they are a part of the neighborhood..
And when there is a sudden rise of people saying the same things which most other members have long disagreed with historically - it tends to lead to people getting the wrong impressions where there was never any need. What matters is your heart - if it's for God's Law and for His People...and for His Kingdom - so be who you are, what the Lord made you to be..and be easy. Others support you/love you and I've been glad seeing a lot of the things you've said pertaining to living life for Messiah ....
There's not nearly enough support going on amongst Messianics because focus is continually on trying to "police" others based on preferences that seem to shift often - and people thinking that someone's "less Messianic" than they are because of the fact that they differ - but that's not even living out the HEART of what Messianic Jews/Messianic Gentiles did in the early Body of Christ. Seriously, How is it we can have sharp debates about what aspect of the Torah one is to keep --- and yet seldom have discussions where we all encourage one another/ask for how we can pray for each other in where we're at in life? How is it we can easily go to war with one another over Kosher/the level one's comfortable with---and yet never discuss REAL life issues such as whether or not we're reaching the homeless/those trapped in poverty, evangelism amongsts prostitutes/those addicted to drugs, movies we've seen and how to reach out to young adults amongst a host of other things we all see in everyday life? Since when did those things become "less Messianic" and not worthy to focus on?
This is what we all should strive for:
Acts 2:41-43
The Fellowship of the Believers
42They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.
43Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miraculous signs were done by the apostles.
44All the believers were together and had everything in common.
45Selling their possessions and goods, they gave to anyone as he had need.
46Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.
Acts 13:52
And the disciples were
filled with joy and
with the Holy
Spirit.
Romans 15:4-6 5May the God who gives endurance and encouragement
give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus,
6so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Ephesians 4:2-4/
2Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
3Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.
Ephesians 4:29-31/
29Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
30And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.
31Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.
Ephesians 5:17-19 /
17Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is.
18Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery.
Instead, be filled with the Spirit. 19Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord,
20always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord
Jesus Christ.
Many don't know how to fellowship together in simplicity. Shoot, many of us can never laugh together----so doubtful many times that one can ever expect growing with each other together. Some things would be cured if we could all learn to not take things so seriously at times....and just chill, as many times it's really not that deep. And when it comes to being light-hearted, it's amazing to see how much more easier it is to get through life...and with people...
Proverbs 15:13
A happy
heart makes the face
cheerful, but
heartache crushes the spirit.
Proverbs 15:15
All the days of the oppressed are wretched, but the
cheerful heart has a continual feast
Proverbs 15:30
A
cheerful look brings joy to the
heart, and good news gives health to the bones.
Proverbs 17:22
A
cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
It's amazing much of a difference getting to know/walk with people can change many of the things others have often thought were never able to be changed...
Differences should go to the wayside when one is in need of comfort. And we should be rejoicing with those who rejoice despite our differences.
The fact that we're able to truly lift one another up via prayer/intercession and break bread makes a significant difference as well. For really, how many things do we have to agree on before we can actually lift one another up as we're commanded to in the Word (
Colossians 4:11-13 / /
Ephesians 6:17-19/ ,
John 13:1 ,
John 17:20-22 //etc)? How many things do we have to agree with each other on before we can worship the Lord through our interactions by showing we're concerned for the parts of His body---and choosing to "weep with those who weep/rejoice with those who rejoice" (
Romans 12:14-16 /
1 Corinthians 12:25-27/ )?
Galatians 6:2
Carry each other's
burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
Psalm 133
A song of ascents. Of David.
1 How good and pleasant it is
when brothers live together in unity! 2 It is like precious oil poured on the head, running down on the beard,
running down on Aaron's beard,
down upon the collar of his robes.
3 It is as if the dew of Hermon
were falling on Mount Zion.
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore
encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
1 Thessalonians 5:10-12
Hebrews 10:24-26/
4And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. 25Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.
Shalom...
