Orthodoxy focuses on the Resurrection. Good Friday only has meaning in that it directly leads us to Pascha. It is not Christ's suffering that is important to us, it is his conquering death by death and breaking the gates of Hell through his resurrection that is important to us.
An Anglican priest and I were discussing theology and to close the matter he said to me: "I preach Christ crucified".
I could tell that he was pleased with his statement.
I replied: "I preach Christ resurrected".
A strange silence fell.
No, I do not want image after image of half naked anorexic criminals undergoing execution being posted to my facebook wall.
Rather, celebrate the new life of the resurrection!
(something of a Schmemannite in terms of theology.

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As for 'Stigmata'. I heard it explained by R.C. and Anglo-Catholic friends as the physical manifestation of an inward piety...namely that the bearer will meditate so fiercely upon the wounds of Christ that, out of [subconscious?] observance, they imitate those same wounds on themselves...it is remarkable the marks we can make upon ourselves in sleep.
Stigmata is not necessarily false. Nor is it the sign of sanctity or insanity. Rather, it is a complex thing of soul speaking unto soul.
God makes use of language, in words, objects, music etc, in order to speak unto individual persons in individual circumstances.
Yes, it sounds wishy-washy. But that is a disappointing feature of explaining the spiritual.