Why do you persist in trying to tar us with the blackest of brushes?
You seem to think that Calvinists believe that only Calvinists are saved, whereas Calvinism merely describes a theory of the mechanics of salvation. What twisted view allows you to presume that we wouldn't care about ANYONE'S damnation?
Calvinism places man firmly at God's feet. God doesn't need man's permission to save him, He saves whom He will, when He wills. Your perpetual insistence on the over-riding necessity for your own will to be free of God's interference reinforces the biblical fact that at heart man is rotten to the core, and saved or not he will battle continually with the fleshly desire to place himself in first place.
Don't take this personally, because it's aimed at all who fight their own sanctification and who attempt to make God a casualty of their will.