Ive only recently began educating my self about GOD and JESUS due to constant issues I had been having in my marriage and being constantly knocked down to my knees because of it. A couple days ago me and my wife kept arguing it lasted three days and for some reason Jesus put it in my heart to just do nothing which isn't like me. So that's what I did. When things were a their worst and final plans were being made for a separation my wife on her own just came out and said this is a mistake. I was so relieved. For the first time I really started talking to her about how I felt our relationship had had all the faith stripped away. The faith in GOD (she is atheist) and our faith in each other. I then started talking about how we were constantly being tested and how I have constantly been answering the test wrong. Then I told her, soon I know Ill be tested again in the form of another woman and I have to start arming myself for it. Then she came way out of left field with something I didnt even consider and it blindsided me. She said what if I am the test. (meaning my wife) I never even considered it. It literally woke me from my sleep just now because I feel so unprepared for it. Ive been with my wife for 14 years. It really illustrated how asymmetrical my approach to life is. What does the bible say on the interaction between husband and wife. Ive just started reading the bible and im in Leviticus so I might be a long ways away from stumbling into the words.
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