No problem!
We got married March 16th in the Philippines. She is submissive mostly, especially after a few days in and she realized I am who I say I am. Honest, gentle, loving, patient...etc.She is a very hard worker. Perhaps to hard to the point of she doesn't care to go on vacations lol. But I can't complain. Most americans seem to be lazy workers in comparison.
I did ask if she is looking forward to coming to America. She says it makes her a little sad because america doesn't seem family oriented. And of course the cultural things shes not sure how to handle them. That and she doesn't know what to do about people with other beliefs. I told her america has its issues, but to think of it as a good place to spread the Word of God because of how varied people are here in their beliefs.
As I've talked to her about america, shes less nervous about it and does look forward to going. Currently her nervousness focuses around if she can get used to the cold since I live more north towards canada. I told over time her blood will thicken so she will be relatively used to it.
After many people started to get me worried about the horror stories, I wondered. But at the same time I let it be in Gods hands. He blessed us and we get along wonderfully aside from small language barrier issues lol. After our last night on the honeymoon...well lets say it was an emotional and amazing bond. It really made her realize how blessed she is to find me (and vica versa).
She promised to always be a good submissive wife and love me forever. Now that we are apart for a few months (visa stuff) she misses me badly, as do I her. We will be fine though. The only thing later on we have to deal with is her mom (among many) wants to see us have kids and neither of us really want them for now. She isn't sure what people will think of us and our not wanting them.
I told her not to worry about it. We are both adults and married. Its our choice. After being their I can see they really push degrees among other things. She told me she was lazy a few days in, so her mother tells her. I asked her what lazy means. She says if she doesn't so dishes once shes called lazy. I laughed and told her thats called human. I said once here in America you will see what lazy really looks like.
She told a aunt privately that she wants nothing more then to cook for me, do dishes...etc because I am beyond special to her and even if shes working she wants to make me happy. I told her I seen what she told her aunt and it touched me deeply.
BUT... I also said I am not a man that uses submission as a weapon to have a slave. I told her since she will work (I am disabled) I can take care of the house. She appreciated how kind that was of me. She just got over TB so I told her she needs to learn to take breaks and relax her body. I don't wish to bury her because she worked her self to death like my dad is doing.
She understands that now and said I'll have to help her to take breaks.
Sorry for the long post lol. I'm just in heaven with her. God is good. Just a few months until she gets approved and can come here. I can't wait. I miss her badly also.
