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blah, blah, blah, blah. It's always everyone elses fault. I find it pathetic that someone has to go around and try to ruin friendships of someone they considered a friend, but it's never their fault. They did NOTHING wrong.
 
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IJWTS - Singles has just been really dramatic lately. Maybe instead of airing it out on a forum it would be best to do it in private. It just makes it kind of awkward. :sorry: For me anyhow. lol Maybe I'm too old fashioned and private. :p
 
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I would Jennie, but if you don't tell someone what they want to hear, they suddenly block you and won't be your friend anymore. Then they call me pushy! :D Oh hypocrisy. When the shoe is on the other foot, they can't take it. I would talk to them in private if I wasn't blocked because they can't get everything they want.
 
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IJWTS - Singles has just been really dramatic lately. Maybe instead of airing it out on a forum it would be best to do it in private. It just makes it kind of awkward. :sorry: For me anyhow. lol Maybe I'm too old fashioned and private. :p


for real. no one else needs to be dragged into this. Private messaging was created for a reason, people. use it.
 
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I would Jennie, but if you don't tell someone what they want to hear, they suddenly block you and won't be your friend anymore. Then they call me pushy! :D Oh hypocrisy. When the shoe is on the other foot, they can't take it. I would talk to them in private if I wasn't blocked because they can't get everything they want.
Then leave them alone? Posting about them when they obviously dont want to discuss anything else isn't a very nice thing to do... and it just causes more drama. If they dont want to work it out with you, then maybe just...let it go?
 
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I would Jennie, but if you don't tell someone what they want to hear, they suddenly block you and won't be your friend anymore. Then they call me pushy! :D Oh hypocrisy. When the shoe is on the other foot, they can't take it. I would talk to them in private if I wasn't blocked because they can't get everything they want.

then you can ignore it. and let it die. there's really no point in posting about it publicly. she knows what you think and you know what she thinks. and now all of us know what you both think. we shouldn't.
 
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for real. no one else needs to be dragged into this. Private messaging was created for a reason, people. use it.
Agreed. If they dont want to use PM, then just let it go. It just causes drama, and Lord knows Singles doesnt need anymore of that. :swoon:
 
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So they started it, but I'm the one who was in the wrong? Typical. Whatever. I won't say anything else.
So be the bigger person and don't fall into that mess. And so what if they started it? Aren't you blaming someone else, the same thing you blamed them for doing? :sorry:'

Or was that someone else? Im so confused with all the drama! :doh:
 
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IJWTS-I've had a copy of Saint Augustine's Confessions for several years now and only recently began reading it. I'm surprised at times by just how honest he is. I think he was legitimately trying to understand himself and that seems very rare.

IAWTS-Resume drama...now. ;)
 
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I just came back to say that Saucy has drama with someone else apparently.

My beef...as I said earlier...is the group of people he was talking to last night. Apparently they all sat around discussing how I am spreading secrets about them, instead of coming to me and asking me straight up.

Unfortunately I don't know who was involved so yes...this went public. Childish? Probably. I'm frustrated and at the end of my rope about it.
 
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I just came back to say that Saucy has drama with someone else apparently.

My beef...as I said earlier...is the group of people he was talking to last night. Apparently they all sat around discussing how I am spreading secrets about them, instead of coming to me and asking me straight up.

Unfortunately I don't know who was involved so yes...this went public. Childish? Probably. I'm frustrated and at the end of my rope about it.

I, for one, welcome our new immature Gossiping overlords :preach:
 
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