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ijwts- i'm starting to think this is not a good forum to be in if the mods can't control the threads. it's really getting to feel hostile and unfriendly around here tonight.


I agree; i've reported things in the past that were blatantly against the rules even and nothing was done about it. There's not a good feel here and I'm tired of trying to fit in, and now I don't think I even want to.
 
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ijwts- i'm starting to think this is not a good forum to be in if the mods can't control the threads. it's really getting to feel hostile and unfriendly around here tonight.



Speaking as a mod, no one has said anything violating the rules of the forum. And also, if you find something offensive, report it. :)

Edited to add: I meant no one has violated the rules in the earlier conversation.

And also staff cant really tell you anything about reports, so what you may think is that nothing is happening is really just us working behind the scenes of the problem :thumbsup:


IJWTS - Popcorn and Wii was fun. :clap:

IAJWTS - I need to charge my phone :sorry:
 
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Speaking as a mod, no one has said anything violating the rules of the forum. And also, if you find something offensive, report it. :)

Edited to add: I meant no one has violated the rules in the earlier conversation.

And also staff cant really tell you anything about reports, so what you may think is that nothing is happening is really just us working behind the scenes of the problem :thumbsup:


IJWTS - Popcorn and Wii was fun. :clap:

IAJWTS - I need to charge my phone :sorry:
i have reported a few things tonight, most of which was blatant racism and harassment. it surprises me that you say nothing said has violated the rules.
 
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i have reported a few things tonight, most of which was blatant racism and harassment. it surprises me that you say nothing said has violated the rules.
My mistake, I assumed you were talking about the exchange from earlier in this thread. :)
 
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One day, I'm going to report Jennie for being awesome :p just to see if they actually look into the matters soonish lol (okay, probably not, but whatever).
Consensus would be quick on that! :p
 
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My mistake, I assumed you were talking about the exchange from earlier in this thread. :)
i saw that but some drama between members like that is normal and expected. attacks like in the other threads are disturbing and upsetting for some of us. i don't like to complain usually, but i'm being selfish with this, i needed something more uplifting tonight and found mostly harsh words being thrown at each other.

i'm sorry, i will just log out for a while since it seems i'm one of the only ones having a really hard time with this stuff tonight. i'm too emotional to be around people right now i guess.
 
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i saw that but some drama between members like that is normal and expected. attacks like in the other threads are disturbing and upsetting for some of us. i don't like to complain usually, but i'm being selfish with this, i needed something more uplifting tonight and found mostly harsh words being thrown at each other.

i'm sorry, i will just log out for a while since it seems i'm one of the only ones having a really hard time with this stuff tonight. i'm too emotional to be around people right now i guess.
I'm sorry. :hug: Singles has been a bit intense lately. If you ever need to talk or just need someone to vent to always feel free to PM me. I know we dont know each other that well, but hey thats how you get to know people :thumbsup:
 
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IJWTS-They should start holding records on shortest times for a thread to hit crazy town.
For threads like IJWTS and the Crush thread it's usually a couple of pages in, now some threads are just made crazy. :p
 
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Sunryse said:
For threads like IJWTS and the Crush thread it's usually a couple of pages in, now some threads are just made crazy. :p

True. Some threads are born crazy, some are led down a crazy path by others, and some are destined to visit crazy town's crazy shores at least once. :p
 
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Nom De Guerre said:
I agree, if anybody feel down and out, or just needs a shoulder to cry on... talk to Jennie, she'll straighten you out. I'd help, but, I'm not that great with emotions and such :p

Of course you aren't. Robots don't have emotions. :D
 
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I agree, if anybody feel down and out, or just needs a shoulder to cry on... talk to Jennie, she'll straighten you out. I'd help, but, I'm not that great with emotions and such :p

D'aww that's sweet!

True. Some threads are born crazy, some are led down a crazy path by others, and some are destined to visit crazy town's crazy shores at least once. :p

Amen. IJWTS is one of those crazy town coastlines. :p
 
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IJWTS- I make excellent pizza. Yes, I'm tooting my own horn. :p

IJWTA- Who made the "I <3 sparkles!" tag? It made me laugh so much. I think the truth must come out. I too love the sparkles LOL!
I seriously thought you said you were "toothing your own horn" and I was wondering how that was possible. :p
 
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