So you're saved whether you like it or not? G-d drags you kicking and screaming into His Presence? Please illustrate how this is loving in any sense of the word.
First off, since I believe He's Omnipresent, we're already in His presence. I'm not kicking and screaming. Anyone else here kicking and screaming?
Secondly, salvation isn't the only whether-you-like-it-or-not deal He's got going on right now. For instance...
God made you a guy, whether you like it or not.
I was born on a Saturday, whether I like it or not.
Liz Taylor had violet colored eyes, whether she liked it or not.
We're Earthlings, whether we like it or not.
The list goes on. You get the idea.
If God is in the habit of making executive decisions in these other, less soteriologically-critical areas of life, I certainly won't begrudge Him the right to do so where it pertains to our eternal well-being.
Besides that, any parent worth his or her salt would
definitely drag their kid, kicking and screaming or not, out of the street before the Mack truck hits him.