Fireplace and Fellowship (2)

[whitebeaches]

addy, i know but i feel it in my heart. You will be a wonderful mommy. :^)

 

[sootylashes]

Kathy - You're making me tear up. Really.

 

[whitebeaches]

my mother had quite the temper and would throw brushes at us. Many slammed into the wall and broke but a few made their target. She was a very angry person for the longest time but somewhere all long the way she stopped. I have never done that nor have i ever hit my children. i rarely raise my voice at them and when i do it isnt even close to yelling.

 

[psalms 91]

Thank you all but these are just truths that I try to keep inn the forefront and music has always been a help to me. I am glad that you were helped. Just pray for your mother that she may come to the realization thaty you are a wonderful person and may her love shine through her words. Addy, I am sure you are loved.

 

[whitebeaches]

i praise my children, play with my children and let them know they are wanted, cherished, and loved. i am not like my mom or my dad who was always very negative and would put us down with his words

 

[whitebeaches]

Thank you all but these are just truths that I try to keep inn the forefront and music has always been a help to me. I am glad that you were helped. Just pray for your mother that she may come to the realization thaty you are a wonderful person and may her love shine through her words. Addy, I am sure you are loved.

i agree, i have no doubt that you are so loved addy. ((( Hugs )))

 

[sootylashes]

My mom used to cane me, and my siblings too... It's pretty common at that time, among Asian parents. My mom has a huge issue with anger but she would never admit it. She's also hurt inside but she won't change. She just thinks it's all MY problem...

 

[psalms 91]

That is wonderful Kathy, speak words of blessing and not cursing for what we speak over our children is one or the other.

 

[sootylashes]

Thank you all but these are just truths that I try to keep inn the forefront and music has always been a help to me. I am glad that you were helped. Just pray for your mother that she may come to the realization thaty you are a wonderful person and may her love shine through her words. Addy, I am sure you are loved.

I will continue praying for her, though sometimes it's easier to just stay mad at her.

i agree, i have no doubt that you are so loved addy. ((( Hugs )))

*Hugs Kathy*

 

[whitebeaches]

That is wonderful Kathy, speak words of blessing and not cursing for what we speak over our children is one or the other.

this is so true and in todays world they need a safe place. and that is my goal and my purpose. to create a loving warm safe environment where they can come to me knowing im always there for them

 

[psalms 91]

My mom used to cane me, and my siblings too... It's pretty common at that time, among Asian parents. My mom has a huge issue with anger but she would never admit it. She's also hurt inside but she won't change. She just thinks it's all MY problem...

Addy, sometimes we just have to insulate ourselves from the situation but do continue to pray for her that her hurts be brought to the surface so that she may deal with them. It is common to put our faults and hurts on everyone else because when we do this we do not have to take responsibility for our actions or have to deal with the deep seeded problems. God likes to shimne a light on those things and it is a painful process

 

[whitebeaches]

lol I love your honesty addy. it is easier at times to stay mad at someone and not pray. But prayer is a powerful effective tool. it can move mountains. and even at times when we cant see the results, they are still affective and signs show years later :^)
thanks for the hugs

 

[whitebeaches]

My mom used to cane me, and my siblings too... It's pretty common at that time, among Asian parents. My mom has a huge issue with anger but she would never admit it. She's also hurt inside but she won't change. She just thinks it's all MY problem...

its not your fault. its not your problem.

 

[sootylashes]

lol I love your honesty addy. it is easier at times to stay mad at someone and not pray. But prayer is a powerful effective tool. it can move mountains. and even at times when we cant see the results, they are still affective and signs show years later :^)
thanks for the hugs

Hehe, I'm a honest girl Yeah, prayer is very important. I've prayed for her over the years... it's just easier to stay angry at her. MORE HUGS!

Addy, sometimes we just have to insulate ourselves from the situation but do continue to pray for her that her hurts be brought to the surface so that she may deal with them. It is common to put our faults and hurts on everyone else because when we do this we do not have to take responsibility for our actions or have to deal with the deep seeded problems. God likes to shimne a light on those things and it is a painful process

I will continue. I hope God helps her!

 

[whitebeaches]

she raised you in a very similar way she was raised.

 

[sootylashes]

its not your fault. its not your problem.

Thank you (((HUGS)))

 

[whitebeaches]

i will be praying for her as well Addy. ((( hugs )))

 

[psalms 91]

I will pray for you Addy and for your mother as well, God bless

 

[sootylashes]

i will be praying for her as well Addy. ((( hugs )))

Thank you SO much. Your prayers mean a lot to me.

I will pray for you Addy and for your mother as well, God bless

And thanks to you too, Bill. Both of you are truly God's answers to my prayers tonight.

 

[whitebeaches]

thank you Addy. I hope when you are ready to fall asleep, you sleep peacefully. :^)