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Wren

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-I don't think you realize how arrogant you come across as in many of your posts.

ETA:This post was made out of frustration. Please disregard the above. I'm not going to delete it, as it's already been put out there and pretending that I didn't post it seems dishonest. I'm just going to stick with positive messages in the future.
 
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Apollo Celestio

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- I value your friendship and think you're pretty cool. I think it's your kindness, even if you suffer a little.
- Despite the high church exterior, you have some pretty strong opinions which is good because I don't see it much when it comes to your camp.
 
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I really wish you would come to me if you have issues with me or the way I post so maybe we could work things out and see the real me. I can't fix things if you don't meet me part of the way. Airing it out on here doesn't fix it. Just come to me with it.

Coach
 
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*I think you are a fantastic girl. Sexy and cute. Plus, you exhibit the nature of Christ. I thank you for your prayers and your kind words. Gaga?

*I think you are a very awesome person. You have made me look like a fool in our early debates around the time I first started posting on CF. We disagree on a lot theologically, but you are still my sister in Christ.

*All I can say is. . .*sniff* Ah, lemon juice. LOL. I care for you like we were blood related. Stay sweet. :)

*You are a great singer. Plus, you have a thing for gang sign showing white rappers, which is hilarious to me. You are an interesting person.

* "You shook me ALL NIGHT LONG". :p I have MAD respect for you, and you know who you are. ;)

I think that's it for now. :)
 
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Bah, I am so insecure that I keep thinking negative ones are about me. :(

So, just as an aside - I really won't be offended if I'm bothering some of you and you'd like to tell me. I cannot improve myself if I do not receive any feedback... I always mean well but I'm pretty dim and I have difficulty understanding how I come across to others...

I am shy, and I think if I have things to say I would like to say them to people in reps/on their profile walls. It just might take awhile because I keep worrying about sounding stupid or something, LOL.
 
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Bah, I am so insecure that I keep thinking negative ones are about me. :(

So, just as an aside - I really won't be offended if I'm bothering some of you and you'd like to tell me. I cannot improve myself if I do not receive any feedback... I always mean well but I'm pretty dim and I have difficulty understanding how I come across to others...

I am shy, and I think if I have things to say I would like to say them to people in reps/on their profile walls. It just might take awhile because I keep worrying about sounding stupid or something, LOL.

Nothing negative from me, Gwen, only positive. :)

I know what you mean about wondering though. If you think the positive ones are for you, you think too well of yourself, if the negative, your insecure...hehe bah!
 
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Bah, I am so insecure that I keep thinking negative ones are about me. :(

So, just as an aside - I really won't be offended if I'm bothering some of you and you'd like to tell me. I cannot improve myself if I do not receive any feedback... I always mean well but I'm pretty dim and I have difficulty understanding how I come across to others...

I am shy, and I think if I have things to say I would like to say them to people in reps/on their profile walls. It just might take awhile because I keep worrying about sounding stupid or something, LOL.

You're aces in my book!:thumbsup:

I know what you mean; every time I read the negative statements I always wonder if they're for me. I'd much rather know for sure, because if I'm acting like a jerk I want to stop.
 
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I know what you mean; every time I read the negative statements I always wonder if they're for me. I'd much rather know for sure, because if I'm acting like a jerk I want to stop.

likewise, but then i figure if people have a problem with me and won't come to me in private to talk it out then it can't be that big of a deal anyhow.
 
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*You are a great singer. Plus, you have a thing for gang sign showing white rappers, which is hilarious to me. You are an interesting person.

HEY THAT'S ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D :D :D
 
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~When I saw your photograph, I immediately thought of a character from Greek mythology.

~I wonder if you have posted here under another name. I momentarily thought of inquiring, yet felt it would be best to refrain from doing so. I am unknown to you, just as I am to the others here. Whatever the moniker, you seem kind.

~I am so very sorry that you were deceived. You appear to be a gentle, sensitive soul, and I pray that your heart is healing.

~You are a wonderful encourager. You strive to retain proper perspective, to rest in the joy of the Lord. You endeavor to shine His comforting light upon the afflicted, for your own soul has suffered affliction. What a beautiful work God has done, and continues to do, in you.
 
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- you are the only person I consider my friend on CF because you are the only person I communicate with outside of posts and stuff. You really challenge me because you are so different at thinking than I am, but I am trying to get better at not being a mean head. You have terrible taste in television, though. Really, 7th Heaven?

- I think you are one of the cutest boys I have ever seen and I wish I had something to say to you.



I WISH ONE OF THOSE WAS ABOUT A GIRL, I FEEL WEIRD ONLY WRITING ABOUT BOYS :(
 
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--- You are beautiful beyond description, too marvellous for words, too wonderful for comprehension, like nothing ever seen or heard. .... I stand in awe of you.

---- Your kindness makes my heart smile. Your words touch my spirit. Your wisdom fills my mind and your gentleness soothes my soul. You are so unique and special.

---- Why oh why must you be so far away? It would be fun to get to know you better.

---- What have I done that thou despiseth me so? I have tried to befriend thee, yet thou has rejected me.

---- Who let the dogs out?
 
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Just say stuff TO people!!! Seriously, your kind words might be just what God wants them to hear at that moment. If you feel pulled to share your comments directly with that person, please don't ignore that.

I just wanted to say that.
 
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