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I don't want to be cured.

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This is me unleashing what has been inside me for months.

First, I'm just going to admit it: I have Asperger syndrome, and I do not want to be cured. In fact, I wouldn't take the cure even if it existed and I was offered a very large sum of money.

It absolutely disgusts me when people look at Autism and AS as a problem when in fact we owe much of what we have today to people with either of those disabilities. Comparing an Autistic to a person to a neurotypical is like comparing a person who speaks Japanese to a person who speaks Spanish. It absolutely disgusts me when people say that Asperger syndrome or Autism is a disease when it is most certainly not. To say that Autism (or anything similar) is a disease is the exact same thing as to say that having Chinese as your first language is a disease. I believe society is completely ignorant about what Autism actually is. It is not a disability, but rather a different "brain language".

I said we owe much of what we have today to those who probably had AS or something similar:

Einstein: theory of relativity, e=mc^2, etc.
Isaac Newton: laws of gravity and motion
Thomas Jefferson: writer of the Declaration of independence
There are more, but I've made my point.

Just imagine if the three figures above were neurotypical; they would not have had the extreme interests in what they did (Einstein & Newton for science, Jefferson for politics). We would not have come as far as we have. In fact, if it wasn't for Thomas Jefferson, the United States might have never existed.

I'm sure many of you with the same "brain language" as me agree with all of this.
 
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There are days where I wished I was "normal" but at this point if I were offered a cure for my Aspergers, I would say no to it because I have a feeling that God made me this way for reasons only He knows. I have even thanked Him for it at least a couple of times while I was praying quietly to Him.
 
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As an Aspie, I can agree, but with some caveats. If any of this is demonic, I don't care how beneficial it appears to be, I want it gone.

"What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul?" Matt. 16:26

"And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell." Matt. 18:9

My HFA son & LFA daughter clearly need deliverance, at least to the point of being functioning Aspies. As a baby, we had to force-feed our DD just to keep her alive; she couldn't recognize her own sense of hunger correctly.
 
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As an Aspie, I can agree, but with some caveats. If any of this is demonic, I don't care how beneficial it appears to be, I want it gone.

"What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul?" Matt. 16:26

"And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell." Matt. 18:9

My HFA son & LFA daughter clearly need deliverance, at least to the point of being functioning Aspies. As a baby, we had to force-feed our DD just to keep her alive; she couldn't recognize her own sense of hunger correctly.
I hope I'm understanding what you're saying...if so, you'll understand when I say, sharpen your iron against this: Isn't that why God gave those children to you? Because He knew you would....could....should....and did. Amen. That is the God we serve. Did He stretch you? Did He give you the strength you needed to stretch?
It's that big.
 
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Thinking on it I believe much of it is demonic. For me I don't work and it is not for lack of education and trying to succeed. It is because I have panic attacks, some ocd and difficulty remembering instructions when given verbally as most are in the workplace.

I am no longer social and I cannot hold good eyecontact and often look uncomfortable and uncertain which many do not understand or like. And That is Not of the Lord. This is most difficult on my baby girl and family socially and financially. I was not this overwhelmed when I met and married my husband. He has much difficulty with it off and on and so we go on from here praying for change.

But the Lord is all knowing and wise so I have learned more compassion for others. I spend much time studying and often the Lord brings people to my mind in images so I may pray for their needs. So the Lord knows my weaknesses and needs and is still more then able to use me as He sees fit eventhough we live in a world cursed by sin presently.
 
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I dont want to get rid of my Aspergers Syndrome (AS) because its a part of my personality and if there was any cure in the world for my AS which I was offered I wouldnt take it. I am happy with my AS just the way it is ... it has brought me understanding bout people in wheelchairs and of course it has made me the person I am today. I may have AS but that is not what counts to make me a really special person :D

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seeing stars many ppl with AS or high funcitioning autism dont want to be cured because they dont know what it looks like. A new and good friend of mine has high functioning autism and I told him that there was a cure. I asked him 'would u like to be cured?' and he said 'I wouldnt know what it felt like'. Its the same with me but I want to keep my AS and he wants to keep the thing he was born with. This all happened a week ago and I was going to write down the symptoms of AS ... but I wont because its my descision :D

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