What do you find attractive in a man/woman?

Inkachu

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Wha....at?! :confused:

I thought that he would be your type.

What is there not to like? lol


I tend not to like men with dark, frowny eyebrows situated right above their eyes, like, with no space in between. Sort of a mix between creepy and dorky looking...to me, anyway :D
 
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Is this better? He is smiling in this one, lol.

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But I like the whole serious guy thing. :D
 
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He's OK-looking...he's just not gorgeous to me.

Of course, a good 50% or more of what makes a man gorgeous for me is his personality or what he portrays in a movie, etc. So, I could watch that guy in a movie and suddenly fall in love with him, lol.
 
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He's OK-looking...he's just not gorgeous to me.

Of course, a good 50% or more of what makes a man gorgeous for me is his personality or what he portrays in a movie, etc. So, I could watch that guy in a movie and suddenly fall in love with him, lol.

Yeah, me too actually.

I didn't like him that much at first but when I started watching Criminal Minds properly I started to find him attractive because of his character.
 
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There's healthy thin, and there's skeletal. If you look at that girls' legs, they are scary thin. Underweight is just as unhealthy as overweight.
I don't think they are scary thin. I eat all the time and i'm that thin and healthy. Just plain thin does not equal underweight or unhealthy. Maybe she has a fast metabolism.
 
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:eek: Blasphemy!!! That's Thomas Gibson. I loved him in Far and Away and Dharma and Greg.

And now I love him in Criminal Minds. But I miss Mandy Patinkin. :(


Lol he's okay... I tend to go for guys who are a little less "white bread." I'll take granola over white bread any day... Mmmm.. now I want some granola bread. :yum:
 
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Seeing as this is a singles forum, I would assume that this question has been asked before. I scanned through and didn't see anything recent though, so I figured I'd go ahead and ask.

What do you find attractive in a man/woman? It can be physical or personality based. Just curious. :)


A brain and a sense of humor.
I also would like him to be bigger than me.

But if youre intelligent and can make me laugh thats the most important. Looks mean very little to me
 
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here we go, in no specific order:
legs, breasts, thighs, necks, eyes, lips, ankles, butts, hips, ankles, feet, the formation of the back, ears, hair styled short or long...hmm i could have just said the entire body, no fun that way. basically it depends on how it fits the woman. so that says basically, i love the entire body of a woman, and how i'm attracted to someone is how all that fits on the individual.

now to non-physical things. their mannerisms. how they look when they are clueless, how they react to anger, joy, enjoyment. how women bring a softer side out of me. i'm a guy so sometimes, some of us guys need a women to bring the side out that we don't show that much. blunt honesty. women that don't try to be good girls, but don't try to be bad girls. they are what they are. anyone that tries to put on a fake idea about themselves are no good for me, because then they are just see through and i've had enough of see-through women. a woman that works. doesn't matter if she has a career or works at the gas station. the fact that she is trying to live and make an income, is a big turn on for me, and its a turn off for me when women don't work. mainly because, i won't provide for a woman that can't provide for herself first. independence. strong headed and strong willed. a woman that isn't confused. intelligence. cares about figuring herself out in areas of life that are important to her, and strives for that. a woman that is not afraid to cuss. foul language on a woman is sexy...in a way. if she's curses like a sailor, ok, that's cool. but just simply a woman that is not afraid to express herself in any way shape or form. doesn't mean she has to cuss, but boy if she feels the need to, i wanna hear it. a new one...one that dances. i gurantee, when i get into a relationship, we may not go out all the time, but my apartment/home will become a dance hall. i want some sinisterness and flare to the relationship, so i hope she has the same desire. a moral woman. big one for me. a woman that knows how to control her emotions and thus lives morally but also a woman that is not afraid to show her emotions. a woman that is strong to her word. a woman that likes to drink but is in control of her drinking. it'd be cool to have a rock and roll girl. music isn't a huge deal to me, as long as she isn't some hip hop chic, but a girl that wants to rock out, would be pretty darn cool. that'd go with the dancing and the sinister part in a way and turn this apartment into a dance hall for the rockers. where we pop in some Clutch, or some heavy metal, and makeup our own dance moves. my mind is preparing them everytime i think about it. a woman that has philosophical views, or even religious views. i could only imagine myself with a non-believer, a liberal religious person or a lapsed religious person but still any of those would be pretty cool.

i'll end it there till more comes to my mind.


whoa.No one can tell you you dont know what you want!:D
 
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I see no man has taken my challenge to post a lady who isn't physically beautiful, but that they still find attractive.

Tsk, tsk, tsk fellas.

I would appreciate it if you would help keep this conversation on topic. We are talking about what we find attractive, not what we find ugly. There is a difference.

Most of us would rather not judge or ridicule others based on their physical features. Although you seem to get a kick out of that sort of thing, that doesn't mean the rest of us do. Especially not on a Christian forum. Each of us is wonderfully created by God in his wisdom.
 
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Miles, what are you talking about? I'm talking about personalities, rather than appearances, that men find ATTRACTIVE. I believe the thread is "what do you find attractive"...it doesn't specify physical attributes only. And uh...last time I checked, YOU didn't post the OP.
 
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Ok now that I am home and looking at this thread (instead of at school), I'll add some pics of what I find attractive.

Apparently, he's no longer going to be acting. He's pursuing a music career instead.
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Taye Diggs
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Normally I don't find blonds attractive, but Josh Holloway is an exception. He definitely has eyes full of personality which I find very attractive in a guy.
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