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Should Christians evangelize gays?

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On what basis do you believe you do not need Christ? i.e.- on what basis do you believe you will not be held accountable for your wrongdoings?
That isn't really any of your business, but I'll explain anyway. I don't feel that I need Christ because when I tried being a Christian, I just felt more guilty and more anxious than I already did before I was a Christian. Plus, I feel that Christianity puts far too little emphasis on one's personal happiness, and it even discourages people from being happy (a great example of this is the fact that pride is a sin). And, as someone with a naturally low self-esteem and a naturally high level of self-hatred, I'm on a constant search for happiness.

Therefore, I don't need Christ. Thanks but no thanks.
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EDIT: Oh, and I do hold myself accountable for my wrongdoings. I hold myself way too accountable for them, in fact, so much so that I'm often suicidal.
 
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That isn't really any of your business, but I'll explain anyway. I don't feel that I need Christ because when I tried being a Christian, I just felt more guilty and more anxious than I already did before I was a Christian. Plus, I feel that Christianity puts far too little emphasis on one's personal happiness, and it even discourages people from being happy (a great example of this is the fact that pride is a sin). And, as someone with a naturally low self-esteem and a naturally high level of self-hatred, I'm on a constant search for happiness.

Therefore, I don't need Christ. Thanks but no thanks.
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OK, so you dont feel you will be held accountable for your wrongdoings, because of a position in faith. As a personal position of faith, it may not be any of my business- and Im not really interested in your *personal* position, rather than the logical position that says the whole world as a process holds people accountable for their wrongdoings, but those that reject Christ wont be held accountable for their wrongdoings because they may feel *more* guilty for having a wrong position than before?

This makes -0- logical sense to me. Please go on and further explain so I can have a better understanding.

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OK, so you dont feel you will be held accountable for your wrongdoings, because of a position in faith. As a personal position of faith, it may not be any of my business- and Im not really interested in your *personal* position, rather than the logical position that says the whole world as a process holds people accountable for their wrongdoings, but those that reject Christ wont be held accountable for their wrongdoings because they may feel *more* guilty for having a wrong position than before?

This makes -0- logical sense to me. Please go on and further explain so I can have a better understanding.

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My post remains unchanged. Your suicidal tendencies dont make any difference to accountability.
So you'd rather that I killed myself because of being a Christian than that I lived a happy, sane life because of being a non-Christian?
 
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So you'd rather that I killed myself because of being a Christian than that I lived a happy, sane life because of being a non-Christian?

Again, your positions are YOUR responsibility- this has nothing to do with what I want, but rather what is right.
 
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Again, your positions are YOUR responsibility- this has nothing to do with what I want, but rather what is right.
So my suicidal thoughts are my responsibility even though I can't even control them and even though I never actually chose to have them?
 
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And again, evangelizing is a show of pure arrogance.

Sorry- this is a matter of opinion- you can choose to be offended by those who are trying to help you, in the end though- it doesnt change the right or wrong of it, nor does it make it arrogance.

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Non-Christians don't necessarily "need Christ." So why are you so intent on forcing him upon us?
I don't believe that Christ should be, or can be, "forced" upon anyone. However, if you are posting in a debate on a Christian forum, it should not come as a surprise to you. :) That said, IRL you shouldn't be browbeaten about it. The whole point is presenting the gospel to those who are unbelievers, just to ensure they have heard it. Not that they are hearing it for the umpteenth time. The ultimate witness of a Christian should be their life. The continual debates and vilification of people because some feel that homosexuality and other sexual sins are somehow worse than gossip and back-biting, etc., astounds me.

Those who believe in Christ and try to follow his commands want to ensure that everyone has the opportunity to hear the basics of the gospel. God is holy and as such finds all sin (missing the mark) to be offensive. Not just sexual sin, or any other number of so-called "major" sins - all sin. The penalty for sin is spiritual death (eternal separation from God) Because we humans are unable to be holy on our own (none of us), God sent a part of himself, his Son Jesus, to live a sinless life and die on our behalf, paying the debt for our sin - past, present and future. This was a gift, given because of God's love for us, that has only to be accepted. You don't have to be sinless to accept it and be forgiven of any wrongdoing. You don't have to live a perfect life thereafter (as nobody is capable of that) in order to continue to have the gift of eternal life. You just have to confess your sins to be cleansed of them and seen by God as clothed in the righteousness of Christ.

Confession = agreement with God that whatever you are confessing is sin in the eyes of God, and your earnest vow to turn from it (repent). It doesn't mean that if you agree that something is sin and you repent that you will never again have the urge to commit that particular sin, or even commit it again. It's called "grace" for a reason. We shouldn't deliberately choose to sin knowing that we can yell "grace" like yelling "uncle!". But those who tell you, or have told you, that once you believe in Christ you should live a morally perfect life are, imo, misguided and twisting the entire meaning of the gospel.

Because people still have sinful thoughts and/or actions does not mean they haven't been "saved." Sanctification (growing closer to God and less like the world) is a process. The closer you become to God, through learning his Word and through prayer, the more your desires in life change. It's not a "force of will" kind of thing, as that is rarely successful and certainly not enjoyable.

Regardless of how you feel about God at this time, he loves you. There is nothing you could do that would cause him not to love you or that would cause you to be unable to claim the gift that is freely offered. Should you choose not to accept said gift, God is not pleased and rubbing his metaphorical hands together gleefully in anticipation of destroying you. He is grieved and saddened.

Sorry to have gone on so long. I was just concerned, due to the nature of most of the threads I have seen that seem to categorize homosexuality as more sinful than anything else done by man, that you might not have heard it presented the way I have learned.
 
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I'm sure they appreciate it.

I doubt it. GLBT's only appreciate people that submit to their authority over morality. I do not and never will.

I'm not sure what you are talking about here. Christ routinely said to treat others well.

But, not to join them in their sins and not to support them either.

He said that we should obey the Golden Rule, to treat others in the way we want them to treat us.

Without doubt. Now how about Jesus and what a marriage consists of? Keep going . . ., I'm impressed that you are trying the apologia.

About the Pagans (the Romans) he said that if they would compel you to go a mile, that you should go twain.

That was about rude people. You are on the right track.

And when it came time to illustrate the point about who your neighbor is, he used a Samaritan, considered the worst of the worst by the Jews, to demonstrate compassion and love for a neighbor without judgment.

Christians live out this fundamental Gospel truth every day. We are still not supposed to approve of sin.

And it was written by one of Christ's apostles, whom you pointed out was a publican.

I pointed out that he was repentant tax collector. Big difference than a sinner that takes pride in their sins and encourages others to do likewise. BIG difference. Read up on what Jesus said about that. Encouraging and leading people into sin is a greater sin than just sinning.

And have you ever seen me call someone a homophobe? At the same time, Jesus did not make claims of a "publican agenda" or "publican lifestyle", rather his example was to treat them as the Golden Rule states -- just like he treated everyone else.

I'll get back to you if I can. The "yeast of the pharisees" coupled with several parables may come as a surpise to you on that point.

Interesting that you yourself have mentioned that you share that "haughtiness".

I don't try to hide that I am a sinner. That only seems to be liberal and gay Christians that go to great lengths to do that. I stick with the "fundamentals" of the faith. Jesus referred to that as building a house on rock.

It is seen among most of the Fundamentalists here, if you ever really look, as they condescend to others -- even most other Christians -- claiming that they alone follow the Bible correctly.

Jesus and His Apostles claimed that they had the truth and those that opposed them and their truth did not. I agree with them. It is plain to see that liberals and GLBT's do not agree with them.

What pretend? Please show me where I claim that Jesus supported Paganism.

You support gay rights."If" you are a Christian, that is not a wise decision to make. According to Jesus and the Apostles and their opinions. I agree with them. Not the APA and San Francisco and Boston based lawyers.

And please, let us drop the pretense that homosexuality is Paganism.

I am not pretending. If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck and craps like a duck, it's a duck.

If you sincerely want to believe that then you must also agree that all heterosexuality is Paganism; after all, there were far more heterosexual sex acts in ancient Pagan worship that homosexual ones.

That's a silly analogy. We have Genesis and Adam and Eve and the Ten Commandments . . . et al, and fast forwarding through to the Gospels and the letters in the New Testament, to see that doing as pagans do is doing as pagans do. There is no such thing as Christian same-gender sexual union. Nor any "other than pagan" in the Israelite records.

Rather, let us get back to the truth that Pagan sex acts were sex acts with temple acolytes (translated at times in Deuteronomy as "temple prostitutes") for the purpose of worshiping God; and this is not what we are talking about when we mention either heterosexual or homosexual sex today.

There is no such thing as same-gender sexual unions of any kind approved of anywhere for any reason in the Bible. In fact it is not even mentioned. But, many places where it is disapproved of.

But it would be a straw man to claim that these are the only Christians that are comparable to the Pharisees.

Many sin celebrating Christians are comparable to the Pharisees. GLBT's are just people that literally celebrate their sins.

And I have mentioned that I have no interest in debating that with you, neither of us would change the others mind anyway. There have been those that have attempted to explain to you and you simply have not really listened. BigBadWlf is quite good at explaining the issues. Things like how Leviticus is oddly phrased in Hebrew, a literal translation being closer to men not having sex in a woman's bed (which would appear to imply adultery or temple prostitution than homosexuality).

Please "oddly" explain how you honor your father and mother when you have two same-gender "parents?" The concept is absurd to the entire Biblical witness. Not just a few books of it. And remember, the Biblical witness disapproves of cross dressing as well.

The fact that every behavior that is given the death penalty in Leviticus is repeated in Deuteronomy (and vice versa) except for homosexuality -- rather in Deuteronomy (as previously pointed out) it is temple prostitution that requires the death penalty. Interesting that an oddly worded verse that is typically interpreted as homosexual acts in Leviticus is not found in Deuteronomy and that no death penalty for temple prostitution is found in Leviticus -- especially when you bring in the question of translation of the Leviticus verses.

What is odd, is the great lengths gay theologians go to warp scripture to approve of homosexuality. Remember, according to gay theology, same-gender unions are not even mentioned "in the Bible." Or, was it just that Jesus never mentioned them? Jesus taught that marriage and proper sexual behavior was in a proper marriage not defiled by adultery. Again, we se no such thing as same-sex mariage.

Then there is the idea that "natural" in Romans is talking what is natural for the person, not against nature.

That is dishonest to go to that great a length to warp sripture their. There is NO DOUBT, that the history of the Christian Church up to this moment is that what we call Gay and Lesbian today, was disapproved of by the Biblical writers and those that followed their teachings.

BigBadWlf explained it well in this post in the Debates on Homosexuality section, as well as Paul's usage of "arsenokoites". Honestly, that Debates on Homosexuality, being in the theology area, would have been a far better area for you to post the OP as it is in a Christian area.

Are you saying that there is a place here a Christian Forums where I will be free of atheists, pagans, gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals, heretics, liberals and progressives, and I can just communicate with other Christians? That sure will save time.

I just thought it was unethical and immoral to present homosexuality as approved of for Christians. That is why I posted it here.

Sorry, I can't see the comparison with gay pride. Gay Pride is not about telling others how to live their life or to make gays richer, either one.

Well I can. Precisely because it is for GLBT's to celebrate their sexuality. In fact it is forced on the populace. The vast majority of people do not need to celebrate how they desire to have sex and with whom. And very haughty displays I may add. That appears to be the exclusive domain of the GLBT crowd.

Rather, it is about being open and honest about how they live their life and that they have the right to do so.

It is recruitment every single time it is paraded.

I'm not saying gays are perfect, I've not seen anyone say that (but you, when you attempt to argue it as a straw man).

Bull. The claims are, that GLBT's are just poor downtrodden people just trying to get along with everyone else, and so misunderstood and disliked. Geez, ya think? EXAMPLE: "Hi my name is Raul, I screw other guys." What else is said in the gay declaration? I have never heard any guy or woman have to indentify themselves by their sexual proclivities other than Gays, Lesbians, and Bi-Sexuals. It is they that proclaim their sexual propensities. I have no idea what anyone does sexually until they make some declaration about it. Why do I need to know that the new woman in accounting is a Lesbian? UNLESS of course she is a resident of Lesbos Island. Maybe she just likes to wear her hair short? Halle Berry does. I have no idea what Ms. Berry likes and dislikes in the sack. And, it is not phobia or a hate crime to NOT want to hear about it. Or support it as a new civil right.

Rather, the entire point is that they should have the right to live their lives according to their own consciences, not be force to hide in closets and only have sex in bathrooms because some feel that if they show affection for the one they love in public they are "recruting".

Public bathroom sex is going to increase as same-gender sex is advertised as comparable to normal and decent behavior. Once gay sex and gay unions are "just another lifestyle choice" there can be no discourse on what is and what isn't decent sexual behavior. The Gay Community screams that trying to stop public bathroom sex is homophobia and a hate crime. Once this plague is apporoved of, it will be a plague approved of.

Now, where do I go to be rid of anti and non-Christians spinning the thread off topic on this website?
 
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Public bathroom sex is going to increase as same-gender sex is advertised as comparable to normal and decent behavior. Once gay sex and gay unions are "just another lifestyle choice" there can be no discourse on what is and what isn't decent sexual behavior. The Gay Community screams that trying to stop public bathroom sex is homophobia and a hate crime. Once this plague is apporoved of, it will be a plague approved of.
Lying makes baby Jesus cry.
 
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I doubt it.

That particular comment was about Pagans, since you apologized for not capitalizing it. Your hatred towards your fellow man, who happens to be gay or non-Christian, leaks out here once again.

GLBT's only appreciate people that submit to their authority over morality. I do not and never will.

False, you are confusing them with yourself. You are the one attempting to force people to submit to your morality, gays merely want a chance to live their lives equally under the law.

You seem to be applying Fundamentalist Debate Tactic (FDT) #2, claiming that people you disagree with are attempting to force you to approve of them, when if fact they are just wanting equal rights under the law. It is only #2 because FDT #1 is to use false claims, often surveys using unsound methodologies and claim that correlation equal causation, to make false claims against gays (or liberal Christians or whoever you are debating) -- then constantly repeat them like a mantra hoping that people will believe them.

But, not to join them in their sins and not to support them either.

Straw man. Again, this is something I never claimed. Perhaps I should label this FDT #3, make false claims about what those you are debating actually said. Though you also throw in FDT #2 in an attempt to get extra points.

Without doubt. Now how about Jesus and what a marriage consists of? Keep going . . ., I'm impressed that you are trying the apologia.

Actually, Jesus never made a claim about what marriage consists of. The sole example, which I believe you are alluding to, is when Christ was being baited on a question about a man divorcing his wife -- in response he quotes from Genesis that a man and a woman become one flesh. Nowhere does he say this is the only combination -- rather it fit the question about a man divorcing his wife. Trying to claim it says more is the logical fallacy known as an argument from silence.

That was about rude people. You are on the right track.

False, Christ command that if a person compels you to go a mile you should go twain, Matthew 5:41, was specifically about a Roman law called lex angeria. Under this law, Roman soldiers and administrators had the right to compel ordinary people to carry their burdens for 1,520 steps, known as a Roman mile. After 1,520 paces, the Roman had no authority to force the person further. And don't forget, the Roman's were all Pagan at this time; so Christ was basically telling them that if they were compelled to carry this burden for a mile, that they should willingly help the Pagans more than was required.

Christians live out this fundamental Gospel truth every day. We are still not supposed to approve of sin.

Some do, some don't. Yet you seem to deny and reject part of Christ's message here, being a believer doesn't make you any better than the most lowly of sinners. It is the way you show your love for others, how you treat your neighbor regardless of their sins that makes you better. As Christ says later in Matthew (25:31-45)
31"When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his throne in heavenly glory. 32All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. 34"Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'
37"Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?'
40"The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'
41"Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.'
44"They also will answer, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?'
45"He will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.'
I pointed out that he was repentant tax collector.

Except this isn't literally correct. Being a tax collector did not make a person a sinner, just as being a homosexual (having same-sex attraction) does not make one a sinner. It is actions that make a person a sinner. A man could be an honest tax collector, though he is likely to have been poor. Instead, the idea was that "power corrupts" -- and tax collectors had a lot of power and, by abuse of their position, could become quite rich.

I'm sure that Matthew repented of whatever sins he committed, but simply being a tax collector did not make a man a sinner. Just as homosexual Christians also repent of their sins -- even if you disagree with them about what their sins are.

Big difference than a sinner that takes pride in their sins and encourages others to do likewise. BIG difference. Read up on what Jesus said about that. Encouraging and leading people into sin is a greater sin than just sinning.

I've not seen any gays here honestly encourage others "to do likewise". Admitting who you are is not a sin, regardless of how much you want to deny them the ability to live their lives by their own beliefs.

I'll get back to you if I can. The "yeast of the pharisees" coupled with several parables may come as a surpise to you on that point.

Actually, I think you would be the one surprised -- just as I'm guessing you are surprised about my knowledge of the Bible. Sure, Christ condemned the Pharisees. The difference is that the "publicans and sinners" Jesus dined with were not trying to claim they were speaking for God, that only they knew the truth. In fact, in Matthew 5:46 Christ points out, "If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that?" Christ condemned the Pharisees not for their sins but for their treatment of their fellow man (not loving their neighbor) and that those they converted became as bad, or worse.

I don't try to hide that I am a sinner. That only seems to be liberal and gay Christians that go to great lengths to do that. I stick with the "fundamentals" of the faith. Jesus referred to that as building a house on rock.

You seem to be going back to FDT #3 here, lying about others. I've not seen any liberal Christian ever claim they were sinless. If you aren't lying, perhaps you could show me where liberal Christians claim to be perfect? Nor have I ever heard of gays, in particular gay Christians, to be perfect. Simply because they may disagree with what is a sin does not make them perfect. Though your comment here, in regard to your wanting to point out the sins of others while you yourself admit to be a sinner, would appear to fit what Christ said in Matthew 7:3-5.

Jesus and His Apostles claimed that they had the truth and those that opposed them and their truth did not.

With your belief Christ was God, then he would know the truth -- as well as the apostles that he taught.

I agree with them.

No, you agree with the predetermined beliefs that you claim that Christ believed. Your claims here are no greater than those of other Christians, including the liberal ones.

It is plain to see that liberals and GLBT's do not agree with them.

No, that is your assertion based on your predetermined beliefs. You've shown in this thread you have no interest in even considering alternate thoughts.


You support gay rights."If" you are a Christian, that is not a wise decision to make.

Again, according to your belief. Other Christians disagree.

According to Jesus and the Apostles and their opinions.

No. You have no clue what Christ's actual opinion about homosexuality was, nor of his apostles. The only person that actually speaks of homosexuality, in any form, in the Bible is Paul -- who never knew Christ on Earth. From the Bible, the closest record of Christ and homosexuality we appear to have is in the story of the centurion and his servant.

I agree with them. Not the APA and San Francisco and Boston based lawyers.

No one is asking you to believe in lawyers or science, just like there are those that still believe that the Earth is flat. OTOH, nothing gives you the right to use the law to discriminate against your fellow citizens, regardless of how big of sinners you believe they may be. You appear to be making a straw man to appeal to FDT #2.


I am not pretending. If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck and craps like a duck, it's a duck.

That's a silly analogy. We have Genesis and Adam and Eve and the Ten Commandments . . . et al, and fast forwarding through to the Gospels and the letters in the New Testament, to see that doing as pagans do is doing as pagans do. There is no such thing as Christian same-gender sexual union. Nor any "other than pagan" in the Israelite records.

We don't have any record of airplanes in Genesis, the Ten Commandments, the Gospels, or in the letters of the New Testament. I guess they must obviously be Pagan, too? Again, Pagan relates to a form of worship of Gods; sex that is part of that type of worship, regardless of whether homosexual or heterosexual, is Pagan in nature. All other sex is not Pagan. That you refuse to understand this simple concept again appears to refer back to FDT #1.

There is no such thing as same-gender sexual unions of any kind approved of anywhere for any reason in the Bible. In fact it is not even mentioned.

Well, there is the likely relationship with the Centurion and his servant. Again, however, claiming that same-gender sexual unions are not mentioned and so not approved is, again, an argument from silence.

But, many places where it is disapproved of.

There are maybe eight places in the Bible that refer to some type of same-sex acts. OTOH, there are hundreds of passages that condemn heterosexual sex acts. Yet, we don't claim that all heterosexuality is forbidden because of those hundreds of passages (though Paul makes a case for all sex being forbidden in 1 Corinthians). Which only reinforces the fallacy for claiming that all homosexuality is forbidden based on a handful of scriptures.

Many sin celebrating Christians are comparable to the Pharisees.

True but most who act like Pharisees do not celebrate their sins. Rather, like the Pharisees, they honestly justify trying to force others by their beliefs thinking they are leading them to God.

GLBT's are just people that literally celebrate their sins.

No, they just disagree with you about what sin is. However, they don't try to force people to sin with them like the Pharisees did.

Please "oddly" explain how you honor your father and mother when you have two same-gender "parents?"

The same way children of single-parent households or adopted children do.

The concept is absurd to the entire Biblical witness. Not just a few books of it. And remember, the Biblical witness disapproves of cross dressing as well.

Again, according to your belief system.
 
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What is odd, is the great lengths gay theologians go to warp scripture to approve of homosexuality. Remember, according to gay theology, same-gender unions are not even mentioned "in the Bible." Or, was it just that Jesus never mentioned them? Jesus taught that marriage and proper sexual behavior was in a proper marriage not defiled by adultery. Again, we se no such thing as same-sex mariage.

Ah, another call to FDT #1 -- that same sex couples are not monogamous. I'm sure some aren't but from the evidence I've seen they do as well as heterosexuals -- not that heterosexuals have set a high standard. In fact, surveys consistently seem to find that adultery rates are over 50% in heterosexual married couples. Not that this excuses gays; rather it shows the double standard, that gays are being held to a higher standard that heterosexuals.

That is dishonest to go to that great a length to warp sripture their. There is NO DOUBT, that the history of the Christian Church up to this moment is that what we call Gay and Lesbian today, was disapproved of by the Biblical writers and those that followed their teachings.

No, actually it isn't. Rather, there seems to have been an emphasis on homosexuality since the King James Bible was published, which seems to be because of King James and not because of actual scholarship. It is interesting to see the differences in Bibles, such as the ones historically that translated "arsenokoites" as masturbation rather than homosexuality.

Are you saying that there is a place here a Christian Forums where I will be free of atheists, pagans, gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals, heretics, liberals and progressives, and I can just communicate with other Christians? That sure will save time.

Actually, there are. There are various areas for various Christian sects where they make their own rules who can post. Beyond that, however, it is not gays deciding who can post where in Christian Forums, rather it is the owner – and they have determined they wish it to be open for all. There are plenty of other websites you would be welcomed in who only allow people who believe the same as they do. If that is what you want, I would suggest going to one of those forums so that you don't have to talk to homosexuals, Pagans, atheists, etc. Though I think Christ would be disappointed by your implication that people who disagree with you (such as liberals or progressives) are not Christian.

I just thought it was unethical and immoral to present homosexuality as approved of for Christians. That is why I posted it here.


Again, your belief. Others, including other Christians, disagree.

Well I can. Precisely because it is for GLBT's to celebrate their sexuality. In fact it is forced on the populace.


I'm not sure you really understand how this makes you sound. As someone old enough to remember this exact statement made about Blacks back in the 60s and 70s, you sound exactly like the bigots in that time frame. Again, merely existing and refusing to hide in a closet is not forcing.


The vast majority of people do not need to celebrate how they desire to have sex and with whom. And very haughty displays I may add. That appears to be the exclusive domain of the GLBT crowd.
Actually, it's not. Again, to go back to the 60s and 70s, there was this thing called “Black Pride” that Blacks did. In fact, some were very haughty displays as well. That you do not now think this was a sin, unlike Christians I knew back in that time period, does not change that it was specifically aimed at getting Blacks equal rights. In fact, I'm guessing that the gays actually stole the idea from the Blacks since that was occurring around the time gays started demanding equal rights.

It is recruitment every single time it is paraded.

False. Are Blacks “recruiting” every time they appear in public? Is the NBA actually a form of Black recruitment? Better yet, what about left handed people, is it recruitment everytime a person does something left-handed? Just so you realize, there is a history in Christianity that being left handed is sinful and evil – there were places that even attempted to “cure” people of being left handed. And as I believe I have pointed out to you before, the word “sinister” is derived from the Latin word “sinstre” which meant left-handed. Claiming that people using their left hand to write or do other activities is “recruiting” is no less ludicrous than your claim about gays. And it is interesting that attempting to change left-handedness was no more effective than changing sexuality.

Bull. The claims are, that GLBT's are just poor downtrodden people just trying to get along with everyone else, and so misunderstood and disliked. Geez, ya think? EXAMPLE: "Hi my name is Raul, I screw other guys." What else is said in the gay declaration? I have never heard any guy or woman have to indentify themselves by their sexual proclivities other than Gays, Lesbians, and Bi-Sexuals. It is they that proclaim their sexual propensities. I have no idea what anyone does sexually until they make some declaration about it. Why do I need to know that the new woman in accounting is a Lesbian? UNLESS of course she is a resident of Lesbos Island. Maybe she just likes to wear her hair short? Halle Berry does. I have no idea what Ms. Berry likes and dislikes in the sack.


And this is where you are wrong. If you don't see and hear people declaring their sexuality on a daily basis then you are not listening. Every time a man mentions his wife or girlfriend in a conversation, he is declaring his sexuality. Every time you see a couple holding hands, much less kissing in public, they are declaring their sexuality. The same with family pictures, wedding rings, etc.


Now, there is no reason for you to care if the woman in accounting is lesbian, just as there is no reason you should care if she is married or any other detail of her sex life. Yet, you have no problem with her having a picture of her husband and family on her desk – so why the double standard when it comes to homosexuals? I've never had a person come out and, without a reason, just declare to me that they are gay. Instead, every time it has happened has been in response to something else; typically a question I asked about their dating life, if they though a particular guy is cute, etc.


And, it is not phobia or a hate crime to NOT want to hear about it. Or support it as a new civil right.

Now we seem to be back to FDT #1 – trying to claim that not wanting to hear about it is some type of hate crime. There is no movement to make any type of speech a hate crime in the United States. On top of that, gays in the United States are not protected by federal hate crime laws – though Christians are. Seems disingenuous that you try to equate gays trying to silence you with hate crime laws when you are the one protected by these laws, not gays.


Not to mention, it again goes back to your double standard. You see nothing wrong with declarations of heterosexuality, in fact you don't even notice them. It is only when gays dare to mention their same-sex partner or have a picture on their desks that you yell about people forcing their sexuality on you.

Public bathroom sex is going to increase as same-gender sex is advertised as comparable to normal and decent behavior.


False, actually it will go down. This is reinforced by the fact that the one example of someone getting in trouble for this is a Senator who is trying to argue that he is not actually gay – despite giving signals that the gays I know weren't aware of and find just as disgusting as you do. Instead, you will find that those who cruise bathrooms are trying to hide being homosexual and are typically married. Those who do not hide being homosexual tend to try to meet people in places similar to those where heterosexuals find people.


Once gay sex and gay unions are "just another lifestyle choice" there can be no discourse on what is and what isn't decent sexual behavior.


False. This is the most famous of the FDT #1 tactics, the slippery slope fallacy.


The Gay Community screams that trying to stop public bathroom sex is homophobia and a hate crime. Once this plague is apporoved of, it will be a plague approved of.


I can't speak for this. The only place I'm aware of this occurring this is in a single city in Florida and, from what I've seen, the complaint isn't about trying to enforce the law it is rather the mayors rhetoric. Also, I think part of the outrage is the double standard. In heterosexual clubs there is often sex going on in the bathrooms, not to mention restaurants and airplanes, yet we hear little about trying to enforce those laws – especially as a method to disparage all heterosexuals.

Now, where do I go to be rid of anti and non-Christians spinning the thread off topic on this website?


I think on this thread you only have yourself to blame.
 
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The mayor in Florida is totally insane, he wants to use thousands of tax dollars to create automated toilets that fling the doors open if it thinks you were in there too long. God help you if you're constipated.

Also, public records show there hasn't been any complaints about public homosexual sex on the beaches or in the toilets, he's simply delusional and trying to solve a problem that is only in his head.

That is what the outcry is about.
 
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Are you saying that there is a place here a Christian Forums where I will be free of atheists, pagans, gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals, heretics, liberals and progressives, and I can just communicate with other Christians? That sure will save time.

I'm a Christian. I'm also a bisexual, liberal, progressive. You make it sound as if there's some sort of contradiction between those labels.

David.
 
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Are you saying that there is a place here a Christian Forums where I will be free of atheists, pagans, gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals, heretics, liberals and progressives, and I can just communicate with other Christians? That sure will save time.

You can try http://www.rr-bb.com .. they're pretty staunch about banning anyone who doesn't fall directly and precisely into the category you just described.


Other than that you're going to have a hard time finding yourself free of these people who seem to be giving you a hard time on the Internet. The biggest problem is that the people who run most of the Internet tend to be young, liberal, and wealthy.
 
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Eros, agape.

We Christians know all about "love" cantata. Even the licentious kind you offer. We out ourselves from the multi part of the eros version you find so appealing still.

Why the obsession with homosexuality? You have a whole other thread to offer your "taste" for that.

Agape,

P-F.

Agape? Sanctimonious nonsense. It's just an excuse for people to feel superior, and no one ever achieves it anyway - they seem to have an agapic blind spot when it comes to certain groups that they don't like.

I'll stick with storge, philia, and eros, thanks. I've found that it's possible, although challenging, to extend your storge and philia feelings to lots of other people, to try to find things to love about everyone, and to care about everyone's suffering. And if you do that, you don't have to make people feel inferior by looking down your nose and saying that, for the sake of your own salvation, you love them despite the fact that they're disgusting/immoral/worthless, because Jesus told you to.

So don't expect me to think you're amazing for belonging to a tradition where you're supposed to have an agapic love for everyone. That's not a love worth receiving, since all it seems to achieve is you feeling better about yourself. And don't expect me to care that you misunderstand other kinds of love, and think them "worldly" - every form of love can be precious and beautiful. Oh, you think yourself so high and mighty because you keep your sexuality in a box. Well I have news for you: whatever you may think, there are those of us who know what good sex can do in the world, and what wonderful connections that can be forged and strengthened by lovemaking. It's precisely those who don't have a consumerist view of sex who can begin to appreciate that.
 
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