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I learned not to waste so much time trying fix anything here, that's one of the most important things - people who try to fix anything get attacked & silenced & the signs look bleak for a good future.Okay, last post on the rulz...I just heard that they are opening reports up to the person who gets reported.
So, in saying that, my ever cheerful and positive outlook says to try and give this all a chance. I am not holding my breath, but lets talk about something new.
New subject:
What lessons have you learned from the Conservative Christians debacle?
I have learned to stay close to God. I have learned that EVERYONE including myself has an agenda and a bias. I have learned that broad brush painting is not a good idea. I have learned that those who appear nice on the surface may be counterfeit and those who are harsh-sounding probably have a heart of gold if you look beyond the posting style. I have learned that freedom of speech is precious.
What else?
Lisa
Indeed. I also learned (much later than most, perhaps) that this site's intimate connection with an athiest website explains much of what is going on these days.I learned not to waste so much time trying fix anything here, that's one of the most important things - people who try to fix anything get attacked & silenced & the signs look bleak for a good future.
I also learned who not to trust.... just for starters.
It should make alot of people wonder Called. Most alarmingly, it doesn't make the KEY people "wonder" what they should be wondering to deal with the problem.Karrie doll, you are the rare exception to the rule! I am reading over at IIBD..HOLY smokes. Makes one wonder sometimes..
I hear you. I was shocked to see who was there...and how they post there vs how they are here. AMAZING to me.It should make alot of people wonder Called. Most alarmingly, it doesn't make the KEY people "wonder" what they should be wondering to deal with the problem.
And they wonder why people are cynical and irritated around this place. As far as I'm concerned at this point, the best way to be happy happy here is to be a nonquestioning minion who's oblivious to what's actually going on, or become Staff so you're on the top.
That combination will keep this place going awhile longer.
Karrie I think you'll be a wonderful Mod.Hey Called...don't put all of us leaders in that group.
I hope you don't mind that this soon to be full fledged MOD would like to join ya'll.
I appreciate that very much. I know there have been some who do not want to see me in a leadership position. All I can say is that we are here for a reason.Karrie I think you'll be a wonderful Mod.![]()
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I think I speak for many others who are angry w/ these changes when I say we are NOT against all moderators - we do have respect for some who clearly have no agenda, bias or power trips.
They do exist here and I'm very thankful for them! (I think we need to make that fact clear in any complaints about 4U's issues).
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How do you decypher which is which on a board that prohibits you from declaring what's dark & light? And when the board opens its arms to Non Nicene Religions (for lack of being able to call it what I would)...??I am sure. What is this all about anyway? I mean...are leaders trying to mix light and dark?
Same for me really - I've found some great people here that I still enjoy hanging out with - when or if things get so bad in the near future, hopefully we'll be able to hang out on another forum out there or something.That is NOT scriptural...and won't work...I mean, what is really going on..especially in the Spiritual realm. I am sure there is alot to pause and think about. IF I didn't have so many good friends here and love to fellowship with, I wouldn't stay here! In fact, I am thinking heavily of leaving permenately. Not that that would make a lick of difference...but...I don't know. I sure don't get it.
GOOD question. Doesn't the Bible say that in the end times, some will call good evil and evil good? We are seeing that alot here. It is crazy.How do you decypher which is which on a board that prohibits you from declaring what's dark & light? And when the board opens its arms to Non Nicene Religions (for lack of being able to call it what I would)...??
Same for me really - I've found some great people here that I still enjoy hanging out with - when or if things get so bad in the near future, hopefully we'll be able to hang out on another forum out there or something.
When the top is what I see it is, then I'm not inclined to "fight" or work for it like I did over a month ago. It would be a senseless waste of good time and energy imho.
But there are things to enjoy here still - just have to search for them - keep moving around when one door closes up.
Right, they aren't "seeking", they're skeptics arguing against traditional Christian teachings.GOOD question. Doesn't the Bible say that in the end times, some will call good evil and evil good? We are seeing that alot here. It is crazy.
I agree..there are a couple good fellowship areas I hang out in. I stay out of most other areas now...ha, for instance, I used to be heavy into the GT area...I quit..cause it was the same stuff over and over. I go back a few months later...and it is STILL the same arguments going on. The major thing is...NO one listens..most talk past each other...I think that is in a lot of areas now...the talking past each other.