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Pete56, a staff member, said:

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Erwin why don't you either make a stand for Christ or throw in the towel and let someone that is prepared to stand in your place do it instead.
Ok lay off Erwin he is only one person you know and this has only been instituted for one month with a whole lot of problems and he has been big enough to realize that and come forward already.......

Otherwise, we would not be having this discussion in the first place :mad:
 
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It's amazing to me that Christians are continually complaining that people hate them or have oppressed them in the past or don't treat them well.
A bit melodramitic here dont you think? " Christians in general think and say no such thing.
Yet when nonChristians ask to be treated as equals, look what happens!
I see more of it that way than the other. Can you show me one bible verse that says christians and non christians will be treated exactly the same way by God when its all said and done? Christians and non christians arent equal when it comes to salvation and the gospel is first and foremost to a christian as it should be - not the lack of. I think you keep forgetting where you are - this is a christian website not a country and not a democracy. There will be no democracy in heaven. I would love to see you there but im not going to lie to you and say youll get there as one who rejects Christ and neither will one who follows a God other than Christ. Thats the bottom line. No one will get there for being good or moral (however they define moral). God is who defines.
Apparently the majority of Christians can't stand the idea of treating nonChristians as equals.
Unless you know the majority of christians this statement is ludicrous.
Though of lesser consequence (at present), it's reminiscent of how slaves must have felt in America before the Emancipation Proclamation. Some people wanted slaves to be seen as and treated as people, and others, couldn't stand the idea. They screamed that if blacks were treated just like whites, there would be murders, crimes and persecution of whites. They cautioned everyone that the blacks would "take over".
Another misplaced out of context appeal to emotion that doesnt even come close to being representative of the situation on a private membership website.
Well here we are again, almost 150-years later and we see that at least one segment of the population hasn't learned a thing. Christians are now shouting that if nonChristians receive the same treatment Christians receive, their entire way of life, (so far as the web site goes), will crumble away beneath them.
no one has stated any such thing. This is pure melodrama and more emotional appeals that have nothing to do with the topic of this thread or discussion.
And if that's the case, then it's a system which should crumble away
Only if that were the case which it isnt.
You have to start learning to treat people like people. You don't treat them like Jews, or pagans, or Muslims or Atheists. Treat us like people. That's what we are. We are no less people than you are, despite our difference of beliefs.
This is a christian board. There are christians and non believers. We are asking for the rules of the board and its ministry to be designed with that purpose in mind. Everyone is not the same in that capacity and thats what is being discussed here. Again i think you might be forgetting that this is a christian site not a secular one. your argument is out of context to what is being discussed.
For all of those who wonder why Christians aren't treated well, it's not because of some biblical prophecy, it's not because we don't like the color of your hair, your car, the size of your church or the symbol you so often wear around your neck. It's not even because you don't want to treat others the way you would be treated yourself. It's because so many of you honestly believe that you have been bestowed with a greater sense of entitlement.
Well yes, believers are saved from the second death and will pass from death into life and have been born of the Spirit. That is a greater sense of entitlement any way its sliced, i wont lie to you. However you forget we would all like you also to have the same entitlement but that ultimately is your choice to make. If you continue to reject it - you cannot blame anyone but you. Christ offers it to all. I am sorry that it upsets you that we have chosen to receive it even when you can also.
Secondly no , we cannot treat non believers as if they are saved when they are not. We cannot as believers if we care about the state of your soul allow you or anyone else who has not received Christ to believe you are a ok and will be a ok when its all said and done. We can respect each other however we cannot see you as a believer no matter how much you would like us to. We are charged by God to share the gospel and make disciples not to say you are a ok as you are without Christ.
You actually believe that you're better than all nonChristians. You can't stand the idea of not being treated better than all of those around you.
Well this is completely false. A christian understands they are saved by Gods grace alone. I am no better than you - i am a sinner who is saved only through the blood of Christ.
That's why you're treated with such hatred by some -- because that's what you emanate -- hatred.
If you feel this justifies how you treat others then thats on you. If someone treats me with hatred its on them. I know who I serve and its Him. He says we will be hated for His sake and i fully expect it.
You simply can't love your neighbor while you're treating them as less than yourself.
Less and different isnt the same.
Loving your neighbor is not the same as loving your pet where you allow it in your house but feed it cheaper food, wouldn't allow it on the furniture with you or even leave it tied up in the yard while you rest comfortably in your home. We're not animals and we're not lesser beings than you. If you keep treating us as lesser beings, you'll not only prove that you deserve the poor treatment you've received, you'll prove that none of what Christianity is supposed to mean really matters to you at all. It's all about elitism and entitlement.
Guilt trips dont work on me. This is an out of context appeal to emotion that doesnt represent the reality overall of what is happening in this thread.
Is it any wonder so many of us come to this site and walk away in sickened disgust?
Considering you have been expressing your disgust for christians here for some time now may I ask why you havent walked away then? Your disdain for anything christian is obvious on a daily basis here. Im not sure why you think that constantly attempting to apply emotional guilt trips will change a believer into thinking they should serve man instead of God. I really dont see that happening and it hasnt worked when many before you have attempted to turn the church away from God.
So keep it up. Keep treating everyone else like we're your inferiors and keep complaining that others don't treat you well. Perhaps when you've pushed so far that the only place left for you are isolated communities where you can live in the mistaken belief that you're superior to everyone else, some of you will begin to wonder.
Its not working. We dont think we are superior and this has been explained ad nauseum. This is just more off topic emotional appeal that has nothing to do with the real situation. Context please. Thank you.
 
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How can the "great commission" really be carried out at a website called "Christian Forums"....?

:scratch: How does that attract non-believers, exactly?

I think the Christians that want to keep the name and also keep it open to all are... well, it just seems they want the safest and easiest way--just net the non-believers, who choose to be wander into Christian Forums....
:sigh:
 
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P_G said:
The problem I have with the whole thing is this
How many days will it be before it all changes again? I would call on Erwin to put on some big boy laundry and be a leader and let the chips fall where they may!
You know here in the US we elect a president every 4 years and then we EXPECT him to lead the country. Not to hold a referendum every 3 weeks.
My vote? Be a LEADER.
And Erwin if you are reading this maybe now you will know how hard it really is to lead. Because if you are a leader some one is going to hate you.

PG

Excellent post.
 
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I didn't say that, a super mod did. You asked who called for him to quit and I told you. Though I have to say, in the 2 years I've been here, he's not exactly been the most active and approachable for problems. He's not even come back since starting the poll. He outlined nothing, no plans or ramifications for either choice he's presented, and now people are killing eachother over it with no word from admin.
It wasn't directed at you
 
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How can the "great commission" really be carried out at a website called "Christian Forums"....?

:scratch: How does that attract non-believers, exactly?

I think the Christians that want to keep the name and also keep it open to all are... well, it just seems they want the safest and easiest way--just net the non-believers, who choose to be wander into Christian Forums....
:sigh:

I have ran into many and the Holy Spirit did most of the work. God leads these people to here. Never under-estimate the of God's power.
 
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The pure facts are either escaping you here or you wish that they would. We're asking for equal treatment, that's all.


How can one ask for equal treatment?

When he does not have the understanding needed to be seen as an equal when it comes to what is being discussed? Yet, insists that his opinion be weighed as having equal validity?




1 Corinthians 2:14 (New International Version)
"The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned."


You have only a very superficial view of Christianity. And, by insisting that you be treated as an equal in what you have to say concerning Christian concerns? Is in effect stating that you do not see Christianity having any legitimate claim to being something genuine, only imagined.

You are like an earthling who finds his way into a crashed spaceship. Where he finds spacemen attempting to repair their ship as to return to their planet. And, then openly insist that they are wasting their time, for there is no other life on other planets. Then? Insist that you be treated as an equal after you do.

Sir? We are not of this world. You don't get it. You can not.



Yet, you insist that we agree with your ideas as being equally valid. And that we are to consider your opinion on matters specifically directed towards Christianity as having equal validity to ours.

We Christians may argue over how the ship is to be repaired. And, some may (and do) have some stupid ideas on how it should be done. But, you have no right to come here and to think your opinion is equal when it comes to matters surrounding Christianity which you can not know truly exists.

Nor, should I walk into a physics lab and demand that what I think about their realm should be weighed as being equal. Even if I see some of the physicist being jerks and rude to me.

Sir, you can not be considered an equal when you are not a peer to Christianity, yet demand that your ideas about Christianity be seen as valid. Now? On the other hand... In the secular realm? In your area of expertise? And, you associate with a Christian who is involved in that sphere of knowledge? Then to be seen as an equal is a reasonable request.

In Christ, GeneZ
 
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How can one ask for equal treatment?

When he does not have the understanding needed to be seen as an equal when it comes to what is being discussed? Yet, insists that his opinion be weighed as having equal validity?



1 Corinthians 2:14 (New International Version)
"The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned."


You have only a very superficial view of Christianity. And, by insisting that you be treated as an equal, in what you have to say concerning Christian topics? Is in effect stating that you do not see Christianity having any legitimate claim to being something genuine, only imagined.

You are like an earthling who barges into a crashed spaceship. Where he finds spacemen attempting to repair their ship as to return to their planet. And, then openly insist that they are wasting their time, for there is no other life on other planets. Then? Insist that you be treated as an equal after you do.

Sir? We are not of this world. You don't get it. You can not.



Yet, you insist that we agree with you, and consider your opinion on matters specifically directed towards Christianity, as having equal validity to ours.

We Christians may argue over how the ship is to be repaired. And, some may have some stupid ideas on how it should be done. But, you have no right to come here and to think your opinion is equal when it comes to matters surrounding Christianity which you can not know truly exists.

Nor, should I walk into a physics lab and demand that what I think about their realm should be weighed as being equal. Even if I see some of the physicist being jerks and rude.

Sir, you can not be considered an equal, when you are not a peer to Christianity and demand that your ideas about Christianity be seen as valid. Now? In the secular realm? In your area of expertise? And, you associate with a Christian who is involved in that sphere of knowledge? Then to be seen as an equal is a reasonable request.

In Christ, GeneZ


Well, to borrow from an old Irish joke, many of these atheists are Christian atheists. Secondly, how does this matter in forums such as Society, Ethics & Morality, General Apologetics, Non-Christian Religion, creation & Evolution, Liberal Theology, and Politics? Everybody has a valid, and equal opinion when it comes to these areas of dicussion, not just Christians (except for Creation & Evolution, where atheists are obviously always right).

And just for funsies:

You are like an earthling who barges into a crashed spaceship. Where he finds spacemen attempting to repair their ship as to return to their planet. And, then openly insist that they are wasting their time, for there is no other life on other planets. Then? Insist that you be treated as an equal after you do.

As it turns out, I am an Earthling, and that happens to me all the time.
 
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Just watch: By the time this thread closes someone will have accused Erwin of being a gay, atheist, communist, alien, lawyer sent as a scout from the planet Marklar, to prepare for Earth's invasion. It sounds far fetched, but watch...

Yes.. there are some extreme accusations:sigh: around here. :doh:
 
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Do you know how many servers Erwin has running this site? :doh:
It was 3 the last time I was paying attention, but it wouldn't surprise me if it was up to 4 by now.

There is a difference between what is called an ecclesial leader and a Priest and I did no such thing

I am not going to further argue with you spherical because it is getting us nowhere you are going to believe as you want.
Ditto.

Besides it will only create hard feeling between us and I valued our friendship and still do.
Friendship?

Just watch: By the time this thread closes someone will have accused Erwin of being a gay, atheist, communist, alien, lawyer sent as a scout from the planet Marklar, to prepare for Earth's invasion. It sounds far fetched, but watch...
Well, to keep up appearances, I'll just mention that he isn't a "true" gay atheist communist. I won't comment on the lawyer part though.
 
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There are really more than two choices in this. But the Option #1 and Option #2 give a general idea of where everyone stands.

Honestly poor execution of either option would be a probelm in any case.
 
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better should I say the times you counseled me on IIDB and were unbiased and always listened to me with an open heart .... is that better ????
 
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I have ran into many and the Holy Spirit did most of the work. God leads these people to here. Never under-estimate the of God's power.
THANK YOU! That is the point! Those who are to come will come regardless. It happened before this website's focus became so... accommodating.
 
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People are fighting, it's getting nasty, a Super Mod called for Erwin to resign, there's no plan or resoltion behind any of the options provided, and now we're all passing the time by being nasty.
Nastiness! YAY! :clap:
 
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People are fighting, it's getting nasty, a Super Mod called for Erwin to resign, there's no plan or resoltion behind any of the options provided, and now we're all passing the time by being nasty.

If Erwin to resign who is the owner of this site, then there is not CF. :scratch:
 
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The Bible has the answers to everything. We are told in 2 Corinthians 6 that we (Christians) are not to have fellowship with non-believers.

We are to share the good news of the gospel of Jesus Christ with those who are lost, but there is no true fellowship between those who are born of the Spirit and those who are not. Just like water and oil cannot mix, neither can darkness and light.

Since I cannot vote here, as it is now beyond the 1000 mark, I am stating here where I believe the Bible is saying on the issue.

With His love,

Ann
 
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better should I say the times you counseled me on IIDB and were unbiased and always listened to me with an open heart .... is that better ????
Sorry. I get confused with all the name changes. It took me a moment to remember that we'd spoken before on IIDB.

My bad.
 
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