Turnoffs!

[yourinnervoice]

Turnoffs...

When someone share's their thoughts, problems, etc and never asks the other person about their thoughts, problems, etc. (Selfishness)

 

[dawnsday]

Turnoffs...

When someone share's their thoughts, problems, etc and never asks the other person about their thoughts, problems, etc. (Selfishness)

i agree with that one...a complainer is never good.

 

[Pink Angel]

i missed the video game conversation, so i want to pitch my 2 cents in too lol. I am a gamer, i own a ps2 and my roomate has an xbox. So i play pretty often. My favorite game, believe it or not, is NCAA football. I challange anyone to play that, its pretty funny playing guys and they lose to me lol they usually play me till they win. I also have grand theft auto, I LOVE Burnout....lol so many guys wonder why girls love that game so much, my opinion is bc all we do in the other race games is crash, this game you win if you crash.. I have Fable for the xbox and i like MLB games too....the of course...I have DDR (Dance dance revolution) man i love that game!! its a freakin great workout!

 

[yourinnervoice]

I am a gamer, i own a ps2...

OK - I now have a crush on someone! I'd better post this in "do you have a crush on someone" thread!!


(j/k btw - But, I think female "gamers" are HOT!)

 

[Smileyill]

Turnoffs...

When someone share's their thoughts, problems, etc and never asks the other person about their thoughts, problems, etc. (Selfishness)

I can deal with this, I'm quite willing to keep them to myself. I have men I talk to about my problems with . I don't need to share them with a woman if she doesn't have the emotional reserves to deal with them. Of course, a little concern is nice.

 

[Keri]

Turnoffs.

Guys who have big heads and think they are better than other guys. I like humble men. Jesus calls all us to be humble.

 

[Leah]

What are some things that are turnoffs in the opposite sex.

It can be personality based, habits, or physical or all three.

What are your turnoffs?

Arrogant
Smoking
Spends more time getting ready than most women.

Insecurity is my number one turnoff. For me, it's the father of all flaws.

Unintelligent.

Small legs. I like big muscular legs.

Blonde hair. *Ick!*

Smoking. *DOUBLE ick!*

Arrogance

Drinking alchohol

Small bodies. I want smone who can effortlessly scoop me up in his arms.

Rudeness

Poor Hygene

Macho-Man mentality

A lack of love for people

Unstablility

Strife

A lack of respect

No backbone - Women do NOT want a man who is too cowardly to defend his lady when people revile and disrespect her.

and last but certainly not least:

an unwillingness to spoil and love me like God does.

 

[Suomipoika]

Turnoffs.

Guys who have big heads and think they are better than other guys. I like humble me. Jesus calls us to be humble.

I went on a motorbike ride with my sister's husband yesterday and I had difficulties getting my head fit inside the helmet.

 

[Leah]

Turnoffs.

Guys who have big heads and think they are better than other guys. I like humble me. Jesus calls us to be humble.

That and they start mouthing off when someone else is mouthing off to them. Like they're on a testosterone macho-man high.

 

[Suomipoika]

Insecurity is my number one turnoff. For me, it's the father of all flaws.

Unintelligent

Small legs. I like big muscular legs.

Blonde hair. *Ick!*

Small bodies. I want smone who can effortlessly scoop me up in his arms.

Poor Hygene

and last but certainly not least:

Shees.. excuse me, but you sound rude and almost everything you wish your guys *not* to be when listing the things above. Would you let all those things out to a Christian guy in real life? When *Christian girls* do this, THAT, ladies, is a BIG turn-off to me. Come on, would you say "ick, blonde hair* to me in real life? I'm astounded.

 

[Keri]

Not THAT kind of big head silly. Big heads- ego wise...

 

[Suomipoika]

Not THAT kind of big head silly. Big heads- ego wise...

Hahahah!

 

[Leah]

Shees.. excuse me, but you sound rude and almost everything you wish your guys *not* to be with listing the things above. Would you let all those out to a guy in real life? When *Christian girls* do this, THAT, ladies, is a BIG turn-off to me. Come on, would you say "ick, blonde hair* to me in real life? I'm astounded.

Well, regardless of what your opinion is, I'm not rude. And your attitude towards what my post is a turn-off.

The reason why I don't like blonde hair is because so many people are dying their hair blonde rather than be themselves naturally. That's what the *ick!* word means to me.

Is that alright with you?

 

[Keri]

Who's the dude in your avatar? For some reason I keep on thinking he's a KKK member or something.

 

[Pink Angel]

Shees.. excuse me, but you sound rude and almost everything you wish your guys *not* to be when listing the things above. Would you let all those things out to a Christian guy in real life? When *Christian girls* do this, THAT, ladies, is a BIG turn-off to me. Come on, would you say "ick, blonde hair* to me in real life? I'm astounded.

awww but from the looks of your pic, you look like you have pretty blonde hair

 

[Suomipoika]

Well, regardless of what your opinion is, I'm not rude. And your attitude towards what my post is a turn-off.

The reason why I don't like blonde hair is because so many people are dying their hair blonde rather than be themselves naturally. That's what the *ick!* word means to me.

Is that alright with you?

No, it's not okay when a Christian girl gives carnal and downplaying comments about "weak guys" or 'ick' comments about people with certain features. And I don't care if my response is a 'turn-off' to you since I always keep it my principle to not start giving 'ick' comments about any kind of girls with any kind of physical looks in the online world, just because I would not call a girl 'unattractive' in real life, either.

 

[Pink Angel]

I think its time we sit down hold hands and sing kumbiya (if i spelt that right) lol

*holds hand out to see who grabs on * lol

ya its ok you can call me dork, ive come to realize this and you know.....im ok with it now

i think CF needs an emoticon thats dorky like one with big eyeglasses and a funny look or something goofy for our nerdy moments.

 

[dawnsday]

I would not call a girl 'unattractive' in real life, either.

Why not? I mean don't go be like "yo, woman you so ugly it looks like you fell out the ugly tree and hit ALL the branches" i mean that's mean.

My best friend's husband...i find him unattractive. she finds him attractive.

many guys have said i am not attractive to them, many guys have said i am attractive to them.

Looks are subjective, so one person finding something unattractive doesn't mean someone is ugly, it means you don't find them attractive.

big deal.

 

[yourinnervoice]

**reaches out to sing kum-ba-ya**

Anyone else? LOL!

 

[dawnsday]

I think its time we sit down hold hands and sing kumbiya (if i spelt that right) lol

*holds hand out to see who grabs on * lol

ya its ok you can call me dork, ive come to realize this and you know.....im ok with it now

i think CF needs an emoticon thats dorky like one with big eyeglasses and a funny look or something goofy for our nerdy moments.

dorks of the world unite...cool people are boring.

turn offs: cool people. nerds and dorks are best.