Turnoffs!

[Keri]

What are some things that are turnoffs in the opposite sex.

It can be personality based, habits, or physical or all three.

What are your turnoffs?

Arrogant
Smoking
Spends more time getting ready than most women.

 

[~HopeFloats~]

one uppers
people who talk down people in public
war of words( when people use words to belittle each other)
cussing

just a few for now.

 

[mina]

cursing
anger problems- they get angry at everything
snideness
rudeness
they don't know what they want
unwilling to communicate

 

[Keri]

One uppers get on my nerves!

Drunkeness
Being insensitive.

 

[Reborn_in_Christ2003]

Smoking
Dirty feet
Really long fake fingernails, or really short unkempt fingernails
To much makeup
Implants
Horrible tattoos (I like some tattoos but not all)

 

[joyouspirit]

guy who winks at me *shudders*

 

[dluvs2trvl]

Arrogance
Controlling
Wandering eye (I know all guys look and that's fine...but I hate it when I'm talking to a guy and he looks past me to check out the room)

 

[*Kairos]

Disrespectful
Rude
Selfish
Conceited
Cussing
Smoking
Possessive

 

[A Taffer]

one uppers
people who talk down people in public
war of words( when people use words to belittle each other)
cussing

just a few for now.

Ok I know this sounds stupid but what is a "one upper"?

 

[joyouspirit]

poor hygiene habits

 

[dluvs2trvl]

Ok I know this sounds stupid but what is a "one upper"?

Someone who is always trying to one up everyone else...acting like they are better than everyone else...they always have the better car, or got the better grades in school, or have a higher paying job or have the worst illness or had the hardest childhood...etc...

at least that's my understanding of the phrase

 

[mina]

obsessiveness

 

[Lintyfresh85]

smoking... I'm allergic to it.
Bad breath... yuck
constantly checking the phone to see if they have any new text

 

[Niels]

-arrogant
-unimaginative
-myopic about her career
-can't appreciate the simple things in life
-cruel sense of humor

 

[Trashionista]

Blonds.
Stupidity.

 

[ElElena]

B iggest turn off for a Christian gal should be when a man claims to be a Christian and he forgets that the right man would never ask a girl to do something wrong.

 

[LOVEthroughINTELLECT]

To name a few:

1.) Tattoos

2.) Profanity

3.) Trashy attire

4.) Materialism

5.) Arrogance

6.) Excessive partying

7.) Disrespectful attitude towards those who disagree with her politically, theologically, etc. and those who are different from her

8.) Overconsumption; no ecological/environmental consciousness

9.) Closed-mindedness

10.) Poor diet

11.) Elitist attitudes

 

[Lintyfresh85]

Blonds.
Stupidity.

some would argue that's those two things could be interpreted as the same thing.

But I personally would never say that, I'm an equal opportunity lover.

 

[Smileyill]

Not to high jack the thread or anything

I look at it this way; I admire certain traits and look for those. Otherwise, well....

Such as:

kindness
a listening ear
quickness to smile
thoughtfullness
wisdom with money, time, and health
active passion for ...

 

[JonMiller]

Watching reality TV.

JM