what to say in messages in dating sites?

[HazelWings]

You guys are either going to ruin his chances with all women or... Actually, that's about it.

I agree with reading through the girl's profile and then commenting on something you find interesting about it or something you have in common.

 

[Going Merry]

You guys are either going to ruin his chances with all women or... Actually, that's about it.

I agree with reading through the girl's profile and then commenting on something you find interesting about it or something you have in common.

Amen...

 

[KingCrimson250]

feeeelin' manic as heck! lets all get super motivated and get dates this week so we can talk about something besides food next monday!!

Let's be honest, even if we do get dates, we'll still probably talk about food.

 

[MehGuy]

Just be yourself, and try to relax.

 

[Blank123]

Let's be honest, even if we do get dates, we'll still probably talk about food.

We do really love our food.

I'm eating grapes right now.

 

[truthislight]

Ask them their opinion on a pre-nup.

LOL great advice, get the hard stuff out of the way early.

As for how id do it, I WOULD do it the same way i try aproach a woman the first time, something along the lines of... Hey My name is akward and thats not a joke !

JK iono mane

 

[Raikon]

You guys are either going to ruin his chances with all women or... Actually, that's about it.

I agree with reading through the girl's profile and then commenting on something you find interesting about it or something you have in common.

Hey! for you're information Crimson's advice worked! I actually got a reply

it said to go screw myself....but hey at least we are making progress here!

 

[MacFall]

Hey! for you're information Crimson's advice worked! I actually got a reply

it said to go screw myself....but hey at least we are making progress here!

That's more than I've ever gotten. Maybe I should try it.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

A thread about manipulating women and I wasn't invited? I am a bit insulted...

Anyway, I would imagine the first thing you need to do is make yourself seem appealing and busy - so something along the lines of, I'm not sure why I am on this site since the girls on here aren't usually my type, yadda yadda... I don't expect to check this site often so don't be offended if I don't reply quickly, but I will get back to you.

Then maybe write a quick blurb about a few things you do like working out, etc.

When writing to them, tell them something honest like how you haven't tried this stuff before and aren't sure about the rules of engagement; normally you just talk to women in the streets, but are attracted to them and felt the need to intereact with them since the opportunity may be fleeting...so on and so forth.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

You're welcome, by the way

 

[KingCrimson250]

Hey! for you're information Crimson's advice worked! I actually got a reply

it said to go screw myself....but hey at least we are making progress here!

Based on the ten tips for getting a girl that were recently posted here, this means that she finds you attractive and is playing hard to get. She is actually telling you "Please, please pursue me."

Which one did you send her? Consider sending her the other one.