Hello, I am sorry that I may seem a little new and inexperienced with BPD---it's because I've only heard about the disorder this week. From the 9 areas of criteria that I have seen in the DSM IV (Diagnostics), I am no dr/therapist and I don't claim to be, but it's just that my on again/off again bf displays 7 of these characteristics and I'd just like to reach out to someone who has bpd for some help?
Other than starting to empathize, understand, and set good boundaries--is there anything I can do? Can someone with BPD help me understand why I suddenly get cut off w/o any warning? For instance, last month, he just stopped talking/answering phone/txt after we were hanging out for a good stretch of time? We get to a place where we have a little bit of intimacy and *poof* he's out. And I witnessed this many many times. He gets drawn away by other women very easily for some reason too, and I am starting to understand that this is also a trait that a bpd will carry as well: they start painting their current partner as black and rush off to find someone white, correct?
Anyway, I'm pretty much invested at this point (8 years) and this is the first I've heard of an (emotional disorder) called Borderline Personality Disorder. I think the feedback from someone who's dealing with this would help!
Thank you for putting up w/ my inexperience! God Bless you!
Other than starting to empathize, understand, and set good boundaries--is there anything I can do? Can someone with BPD help me understand why I suddenly get cut off w/o any warning? For instance, last month, he just stopped talking/answering phone/txt after we were hanging out for a good stretch of time? We get to a place where we have a little bit of intimacy and *poof* he's out. And I witnessed this many many times. He gets drawn away by other women very easily for some reason too, and I am starting to understand that this is also a trait that a bpd will carry as well: they start painting their current partner as black and rush off to find someone white, correct?
Anyway, I'm pretty much invested at this point (8 years) and this is the first I've heard of an (emotional disorder) called Borderline Personality Disorder. I think the feedback from someone who's dealing with this would help!
Thank you for putting up w/ my inexperience! God Bless you!