Why don't you give daughter and boy and opportunity to do some fun things together under supervision.I do not know his parents. I wish that I did. I do plan on talking to them when the time comes/chance arises. As hard as it might be, I do want to talk about our values, what we expect, and etc. It is very hard not knowing them, and they may not be Christian, or have similar values/expectations. That will be seen soon, if daughter and boy continue to hang out. In my mind, I was going to give it a few weeks before pushing to meet parents. Hopefully it will come up naturally, and I will be able to drive to boy's house to pick him up or drop him off, and could then meet his parents, and invite them to talk.
This is very hard for a very shy and socially awkward person such as myself. Lots of prayers that God works out the perfect plan.
For example, if you are going to take her car priveledges away for a while or limit them, why not say something like "Why don't you invite <<boy>> to come to the movies with us on friday night to see <<Enter Movie here>>. Dad and I will get seats in the theatre away from the two of you. So you can have a little privacy and we can all get to know each other.
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"If you and <<boy>> would like to rent a few movies and for him to come over friday evening and us to watch them together that would be fun, or you don't have to watch them with them, but just have them at your house. You can then get to know him and if you get the chance to 'talk' with him one-on-one, you may want to ask him questions about the sneaking out of the house incident. Let it be known that you do not consider it appropriate for him to ask her to disobey her parents, nor do you consider it appropriate for a boy to invite a girl to his home at all hours of the night. YOU HAVE HIGHER STANDARDS. GODLY STANDARDS.
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