Mrs.Slocombe
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And no, your personal grooming products are not taken as an even trade.
Bull. I'm not talking basic cleanser, moisturizer and toner. I'm talking about the expectation of men I've gone out with - that I look physically attractive beyond basic polish when out in public with them. Granted, I genuinely enjoy makeup, aestetics and fashion, but I also know that there is an expectation that I look a certain way when out in public, with a date in the first little while. You pay for dinner, I put in the effort and not look like a slob on the date.
And I'm sorry, but waxing and shaving is an expensive habit to keep up. As much as a smooth surface is more attractive to me, I also know it's social conditioning largely determined by men. By no means am I nessecarily complaining (eyebrow waxing makes one hell of a difference for most women), but the extra waxing, body sugaring and shaving a woman does while at least, in the early or honeymoon stage of a relationship, ads up to just as much as a few steak dinners.
You spend X amount on the first dinner date, but I've already spent $15 on my brows, another $40 on a bikini wax, nearly $20 by the time I've bought razors and shaving cream for my under-arms and legs. Add all that in to the fact that the pro waxing is once a month, legs & underarms twice/week for a woman with relatively fair and fine hair - and yes, that is a sizeable amount of dough I've also spent to make my SO happy. That also, doesn't include the outfits I'm expected to don when I go meet your (male) friends at the club for the first time, the hostess gift I brought to the pre-drink because a lot of the SOs seem to forget this, and the undie set. And unless I'm going to Wal Mart, that's a sizeable amount of my disposable income I've invested to make my SO happy.
It's all about compromise. If you're going to expect me to look gorgeous all the time, you better be putting in just as much time, effort and disposable income percentage in some capacity.
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