SolomonVII
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It is no longer politically correct for boys to be boys. Society has become feminized. Masculine values are no longer accepted as being valid.What ever happened to the good ol' fist fight to solve male dominance issues at school? I mean seriously- why not just deck a kid who keeps asking you to be his valentine? I don't think violence is a great solution, but there's some hard wired genetics which make a fist fight exactly what settles issues of pecking order.
Violence was never a great solution, but when it was at least disapprovingly accepted without ever being officially condoned, there was always at least an unwritten code respected by all the parties involved.
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don't think video games, etc. are much to blame. I think it's a complicated set of issues--however one which is at the top of my suspected list is actually the elimination from acceptable some more minor forms of violence as problem solving, particularly for boys.
Without valid role models of what masculine behavior really is, if video games are the only role models a boy has of masculine behavior, they may have some effect.
But, agreed, I doubt that they are ever more than a minor factor.
The idea that gender is unimportant is a product of radical feminism.There's this weird sissification of boys going on and I think that leaves boys very confused and frustrated with the range of emotion which is acceptable to express.
I agree. Feminine values of nuturing, and basing values upon feelings rather than behavior has had a terrible consequence for boys.Seriously, much of parenting these days is about removing as much perceived danger from childhood as possible- there's sun block and helmets and no more swings, no more high dives, elbow pads, and bottled water...I think that for boys in particular that leaves a huge gap for processing their male/aggressor/defender feelings.
I would really recommend listeinng to Dennis Prager(online) if this is where your believe lies. He is a very intelligent voice on this subject.
Ritalin is there more for teachers rather than for boys. It is not as if boys did not have to sit still in classes before, but there was a time that discipline taught them the consequences for lack of control.Boys are also required to spend more and more time in school- being, essentially little girls. If they show any boy-ness they are told they are defective, have ADD and thrown on medication--when really the flaw was in having little boys sit still and quiet for 2 hour stretches of time.
Drugs teach them absolutely nothing. they control behavior, rather than forming the morality that boys especially require.
It is insane to think that we can send our boys dressed as girls into that swirling vortex or hormones of a High School supercharged as they are with sexual thoughts and innuendo, and assume that there will be no consequences.I dunno- personally I think there just ought to be school uniforms- even if that's jeans and blue t-shirt. Just remove how people dress from the swirling vortex of issues middle and high schoolers are dealing with.
This is a failure of adults setting proper limits. Anti-authoritarian attitudes that came out of the sixties are not serving our children well at all.
Children need limits too. Freedom without limits is hellish.
Prayer just wouldn't really be able to express the contempt towards this form of child abuse that has been legislated in California.My prayers for both boys and their friends and families.
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