JohnDB
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I don't know how "hot" Mary was, but....
If you are looking at Mary and Joseph as a having had relations because ordinary couples have relations, then ask yourself: Are Mary and Joseph an ordinary couple? They raised God Incarnate in the house...no big deal! I think it's an error to thus look at this couple as normal, that he would just think she was hot and want sex like any old trucker.
Mary was with child because the Spirit overshadowed her. You see, Mary and the Spirit brought forth this child in the world. In this theological sense, Mary is the spouse of the Spirit. Joseph, a good Jewish servant, would respect the arena of bringing forth life from where God went before him, no? In other words, Joseph would have had every reason to remain celibate from Mary in this unusual circumstance of God overshadowing a woman with His Son (which has only ever happened once).
Joseph wasn't a truck driver.
He was a construction worker. And the bible does say that Joseph didn't "know" her until after the baby was born...meaning he had no sexual relations with her until after the baby was born. He was a good man...but he was a real man...and I can see and believe that God would bless Mary with children after Jesus who was consecrated for a different kind of life than an ordinary one...she would need other children to fulfill Jesus' role in providing for her. Look at Elizabeth...she felt disgrace for not bearing Zachariah any children...as did all Jewish women who were barren.
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