Your last date

[sweetlambofgod]

I met someone just after Christmas...we met on a Christian dating site online in September, and he flew out for a week over New Year's. We just recently broke up...he'd wanted to get married...but I wasn't in love

sorry to hear!

 

[IDDQD]

My last date was back in March of 2005. I haven't dated since because I'm pretty jaded and cynical about the whole experience. Each date I've had was pretty bad, where the woman wanted to take advantage of me and "relieve" me of my virginity. I really don't have the kind of trust needed to date, to open up and be vulnerable, so I've opted for the chaste, celibate, single, virgin lifestyle. Less hassle and stress for me.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

My last date was back in March of 2005. I haven't dated since because I'm pretty jaded and cynical about the whole experience. Each date I've had was pretty bad, where the woman wanted to take advantage of me and "relieve" me of my virginity. I really don't have the kind of trust needed to date, to open up and be vulnerable, so I've opted for the chaste, celibate, single, virgin lifestyle. Less hassle and stress for me.

aww thats too bad, I know many guys like that too

 

[JPPT1974]

Blind date back in 1995
Since then, haven't dated
Really too seriously as I prefer
Being single!

 

[oncewaslost]

at the coffee shop the other day, i had a customer try to get my number for an apparent booty-call. now that was surprising.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

did you give it?

 

[oncewaslost]

definitely not. spoke to him for 10 minutes and he never once introduced himself. besides, i'm not interested in booty-calls.

 

[GuacaMolly]

My last date was with my boyfriend in September a couple weeks before we broke up.

I've never done a relationship in a way that would be pleasing to God, and I think that I need to completely heal and grow some more before I can.

It's just so hard. I wish that God would guard my heart and keep awesome people away from me!

I just crave intimacy, clicking with someone, I miss spooning, dangit!

I know, I know.....everything has a season. I'm just hoping the spooning season isn't TOO far off

 

[sweetlambofgod]

definitely not. spoke to him for 10 minutes and he never once introduced himself. besides, i'm not interested in booty-calls.

good thinking

 

[sweetlambofgod]

My last date was with my boyfriend in September a couple weeks before we broke up.

I've never done a relationship in a way that would be pleasing to God, and I think that I need to completely heal and grow some more before I can.

It's just so hard. I wish that God would guard my heart and keep awesome people away from me!

I just crave intimacy, clicking with someone, I miss spooning, dangit!

I know, I know.....everything has a season. I'm just hoping the spooning season isn't TOO far off

it can be really hard!

 

[Mikeb85]

where in Canada are ya?

Cowtown (Calgary) Alberta...

How bout you?

 

[Salazar35]

my last date was back in November. I met this really cool girl online and we had lots of chemistry over the phone ,but when we finally hung out I was a big noob.. very quiet and shy and insecure. anyways that was the last date I was on.

I havent had the guts to talk to ask anyone out since then.. maybe in the summer Ill man up and get out there again.

 

[ido]

my last date was back in November. I met this really cool girl online and we had lots of chemistry over the phone ,but when we finally hung out I was a big noob.. very quiet and shy and insecure. anyways that was the last date I was on.

I havent had the guts to talk to ask anyone out since then.. maybe in the summer Ill man up and get out there again.

What exactly about girls do you find intimidating? I know a lot of guys feel the same as you do and I've always wondered what it is about girls that do that to them.

 

[CoachR64]

I think it goes back to our culture... women are placed one a pedestal.

I think a lot of guys see a woman as the ultimate goal, which makes it so intimidating. A lot of guys make women out to be some fantasy prize instead of simply treating them like a human being that would probably be happy if you would just be willing to say hi and get to know her.

Coach

 

[Axcelcius]

I think it goes back to our culture... women are placed one a pedestal.

I think a lot of guys see a woman as the ultimate goal, which makes it so intimidating. A lot of guys make women out to be some fantasy prize instead of simply treating them like a human being that would probably be happy if you would just be willing to say hi and get to know her.

Coach

Or women place themselves on a pedestal. This ties in with playing hard to get.

 

[CoachR64]

I disagree with that.

I think most women just want to be talked to and treated like a person.

Yes, there are girls that think they deserved to be treated like their crap don't stink, but they are rare.

Coach

 

[ido]

Yes, there are girls that think they deserved to be treated like their crap don't stink, but they are rare.

Coach

Yeah, I'm one in a million.

lol j/k

Honestly, you're right. I just want a guy that isn't going to be afraid to say hi to me or admit that he might actually want to get to know me better.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

Cowtown (Calgary) Alberta...

How bout you?

beautiful british columbia

 

[sweetlambofgod]

my last date was back in November. I met this really cool girl online and we had lots of chemistry over the phone ,but when we finally hung out I was a big noob.. very quiet and shy and insecure. anyways that was the last date I was on.

I havent had the guts to talk to ask anyone out since then.. maybe in the summer Ill man up and get out there again.

guys intimidate me

 

[.Mikha'el.]

guys intimidate me

From what you have told me on MSN, I can understand why.