I do not see God as being dualistic in Scripture, nor do I see a yin and yang here (which is part of a completely different religion).
However, you are correct in saying that God in Scripture is both a God of love and is holy. Where I disagree with you is in definitions and conclusions.
I can agree with you mostly on your definition of love here.
I am with you so far.
I went to a very memorable Christian Conference that was put on by Youth For Christ while I was in high school. One of the topics that was emphasized was “Set Apart,” which definitely has to do with holiness. This is also seen in Scripture when God talks about objects in the temple being holy/set apart, and even how he talks about people being holy/set apart.
This is where I begin to differ from you, especially the last part you wrote there. According to the Bible, people can be made holy by God. This certainly doesn’t mean that those individuals should be exalted or praised or worthy of devotion.
Holiness is neither inward or outwardly directed, as I understand the concept.
God’s holiness is definitely different from any other kind, but that doesn’t make His holiness selfish. (And selfishness can’t really be an attribute of God anyway, when you consider all that Scripture says about God. Selfishness is a human problem).
God’s holiness is not in opposition to His love.
God’s love is all over the Bible. Here are a few examples:
16 “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him.
John 3:16-17 NASB 95
But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8 NASB 95
The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love. By this the love of God was manifested in us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world so that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has seen God at any time; if we love one another, God abides in us, and His love is perfected in us.
1 John 4:8-12 NASB 95
There are many other examples in the Bible.
So as can be seen from the selected Scriptures above, I don’t think that God is selfish at all.
The way I see it, there are many aspects to God's nature, most if not all of which, fit neatly into one of two primary attributes - God as LOVE and God's HOLINESS
Of course, I realize that Yin & Yang is not a biblical concept
I introduced the abstraction only as a means by which to introduce the idea of two seemingly diametrically opposed natures {such as selflessness and selfishness} coexisting in perfect harmony and equal measure
You see holiness as neither inwardly nor outwardly directed
I disagree
Although God can make a human being holy, I don't imagine that anyone will argue with me when I assert that God is the one and only, truly holy being in existence
He, and He alone, is set apart
God's holiness is wholly His
All about Him
If this isn't what it means to be inwardly directed - then I don't know what is...
Perhaps I could have chosen a different word than selfishness to describe God's holiness, but I don't know what that word might be...
Selfishness is to be excessively and/or exclusively concerned with one's self
Holiness, by definition, is selfish
You have asserted that God's holiness is not in opposition to His love
I beg to differ
What happens when a sincere god-seeker dies without having come to Christ?
A sincere god-seeker who dies having been deceived into following a false god?
This person now finds himself standing in judgement before the ONE, TRUE GOD
This person now realizes how he had been fooled by Satan into devoting himself, in life, to the wrong god
This person, with a genuinely repentant heart and sincere desire to spend eternity with God, asks humbly for forgiveness
Christianity would have us believe that God tells this man:
"Too late - you had your chance to find Jesus before you died and you blew it - now you will be going to Hell"
Here, we find God's love in conflict with His holiness and His holiness comes out on top
God, as love, desires to welcome this man into Heaven
God's holiness, though, demands that this man go to Hell