Yes iknow it is guy advice

[lil_god_lova]

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[Mr.Cheese]

For the sake of your sanity...
If he digs you, he needs to break up with the girl and be all about you.
If he sweet talks you but still keeps this girl he's going out with (which sounds like the case), walk away and find another guy. Either he can't make up his mind, or he's playing with both of you.
Dont' put up with that for a second. Remember, talk is cheap.

 

[Dewjunkie]

Listen to the cheese. If he wants to play both ends, make one end unavailable to him. Then if he really wants to be with you, he will be. Otherwise, I'm sure there are plenty of guys who would enjoy spending time with you.

 

[lil_god_lova]

hmm.. thanks but however now i don't know the advice i was looking for because i told him that yesterday.

 

[Mr.Cheese]

Basically, with what you told us, it seems like this guy is a waste of time as far as dating goes. You're both pretty young so you're probably going to find that most guys are a waste of time as far as dating goes.
Just because you like this guy and want to be with him doesn't make being with him a good idea. That's about all I can say.
If you're friends, I'd leave it like it is. If that's weird to do, the move on.

Don't just listen for reasons to trust someone, see reasons. Remember, talk is cheap.

 

[DaveKerwin]

sit back and relax, then pray. don't think too much.

 

[lil_god_lova]

ok i'll explain the other side of the problem that i didin't have time to explain before. this guy is very trustworthy and is there for me no matter wat. I was ready to kill myself a while ago and he stuck thoruhg it when i lost all my otherfriends. He told an adult i trusted too so i could get help. He's not spent time wif his girl so he can cheer me up and even after everything that happened between us he proved loyal and trustworthy by telling charan about absolutely everything and then ending everything wif me. it was only brunbg up this time coz charan has expresseed feelings for him and never listenes to how he feels...

but i'm proving everyone wrong about things so don't worry

 

[DeputyDan]

He is lying to you when he is with you and he is lying to the other girl when he is with her.

Do you want a life with someone you can't trust?

At age 16 you have lived less than 20% of your normal life. Have fun, Love God, and enjoy each day. You can get serious when you find someone that is worth you.

 

[lil_god_lova]

I don't really know wat to say because he hasn't lied at all.. about any of it coz he's told me the truth and her the truth about everything so yeah...
don't worry about me