This obsessed jerk who calls himself a Christian, claims to love me, keeps chasing me and also keeps writing hideous things about me online. He has for years, refusing to stop. I tried to bear it as a Christian, praying about it and being kind towards them at first, but the situation hasn't improved and my patience has run out. I truly can't stand it any more.
He daily posts prayer requests every day on prayer sites, for God to make me love him, for God to "make us one", for God to remove other guys from my life including THE GUY I LOVE, and more. Which is aggravating enough, but he doesn't stop at that. He also writes untrue things, even on these forums: that we love each other, I'm his gf, fiancee, wife, an adultress, that we have children, I was sexually abused, was sexually intimate, that my parents house-arrested me for wanting to be with him, and MUCH more. Even maligning my future husband by calling him an old pervert, adulterer, immoral non-Christian, a cheater who's only using me for sex (ALL UNTRUE -- he's young, single, never-married, and a Christian!), calling him evil, and more.
He spies on me online and hacks into my accounts. The list of his crimes is practically endless. He's negatively affected and largely wrecked my life in the past by so many of his lies TO me; now he's further trying to destroy me through stress and anger by lies ABOUT me.
I've never met anyone more shameless and shameful in my life. I find these insults just too much. It's even affecting my relationships with family and friends, and my love. He won't be persuaded to stop. He claims to love me and want my happiness, but won't stop causing me unhappiness no matter what I say or how I plead. Pleas won't work, so won't threats or anything else. He's killing me with his "love".
I made myself clear years ago, and even recently: that I have zero feelings for him. That I don't and won't ever like him. He doesn't wanna believe and doesn't listen.
It really angers me to see how he fools so many Christians with his lies and gets (tricks) prayers out of them by telling them that we're a once loving couple going through problems seeking reconciliation, facing unwanted divorce, have been dating and split up, a bad man has come between us causing division, that we're meant for each other by God, that I betrayed him, God promised me to him etc. Of course leaving out true facts about the situation, like that he's a disgusting liar I can't stand, and that to me he's the most unappealing disrespectable person I have ever met. That I feel I'd rather kill myself than ever be with him.
When I try ignoring what he does, he then hacks into my stuff, sends spam using others' accounts (people I know), contacting me via various routes (like youtube), using various identities and usernames, leaving me comments that provoke me, and does whatever else he can to get my attention. Even resorts to prank calls, if he can't. I've changed servers, email addresses, closed down accounts etc so many times. But b/c he also has info on others I know, he has always managed to find me out again.
He also prays against my love relationship, which allows Satan to more easily attack my God-given relationship whenever possible.
Please pray for his low vile tactics to stop and for him to be prevented from using lies to anger and insult me any further. All that he has done can't be explained in a few words. I've truly reached the point of wishing him nothing but ill, even death.
The unbelievable thing is that, his brother is also obsessed with me (been for years) -- each one of them claiming that God's chosen me for him and promised me to him -- and won't stop chasing me and angering me either.
I truly need these creeps out of my life and sight.
I need God's mercy.
He daily posts prayer requests every day on prayer sites, for God to make me love him, for God to "make us one", for God to remove other guys from my life including THE GUY I LOVE, and more. Which is aggravating enough, but he doesn't stop at that. He also writes untrue things, even on these forums: that we love each other, I'm his gf, fiancee, wife, an adultress, that we have children, I was sexually abused, was sexually intimate, that my parents house-arrested me for wanting to be with him, and MUCH more. Even maligning my future husband by calling him an old pervert, adulterer, immoral non-Christian, a cheater who's only using me for sex (ALL UNTRUE -- he's young, single, never-married, and a Christian!), calling him evil, and more.
He spies on me online and hacks into my accounts. The list of his crimes is practically endless. He's negatively affected and largely wrecked my life in the past by so many of his lies TO me; now he's further trying to destroy me through stress and anger by lies ABOUT me.
I've never met anyone more shameless and shameful in my life. I find these insults just too much. It's even affecting my relationships with family and friends, and my love. He won't be persuaded to stop. He claims to love me and want my happiness, but won't stop causing me unhappiness no matter what I say or how I plead. Pleas won't work, so won't threats or anything else. He's killing me with his "love".
I made myself clear years ago, and even recently: that I have zero feelings for him. That I don't and won't ever like him. He doesn't wanna believe and doesn't listen.
It really angers me to see how he fools so many Christians with his lies and gets (tricks) prayers out of them by telling them that we're a once loving couple going through problems seeking reconciliation, facing unwanted divorce, have been dating and split up, a bad man has come between us causing division, that we're meant for each other by God, that I betrayed him, God promised me to him etc. Of course leaving out true facts about the situation, like that he's a disgusting liar I can't stand, and that to me he's the most unappealing disrespectable person I have ever met. That I feel I'd rather kill myself than ever be with him.
When I try ignoring what he does, he then hacks into my stuff, sends spam using others' accounts (people I know), contacting me via various routes (like youtube), using various identities and usernames, leaving me comments that provoke me, and does whatever else he can to get my attention. Even resorts to prank calls, if he can't. I've changed servers, email addresses, closed down accounts etc so many times. But b/c he also has info on others I know, he has always managed to find me out again.
He also prays against my love relationship, which allows Satan to more easily attack my God-given relationship whenever possible.
Please pray for his low vile tactics to stop and for him to be prevented from using lies to anger and insult me any further. All that he has done can't be explained in a few words. I've truly reached the point of wishing him nothing but ill, even death.
The unbelievable thing is that, his brother is also obsessed with me (been for years) -- each one of them claiming that God's chosen me for him and promised me to him -- and won't stop chasing me and angering me either.
I truly need these creeps out of my life and sight.
I need God's mercy.
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