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Hey, I would. I mean, as far as I've observed, most Christians don't have it as figured out as they claim to anyway. Back when I was a Christian, I dated this girl who claimed to be a 'Christian'. She'd cry every worship service and get all into it. Then she'd go home and update her facebook, saying "how amazing" God is. Well, she cheated on me. Twice. I ended it between us, that wasn't something I'd stand for. At the time of my speaking, she has had multiple pregnancy scares, has probably had sexual relations with any man willing about once a week (I'm assuming, since I don't talk to her anymore. But last time I talked to her about a month ago, she told me that she's been sleeping around almost chronically.). She applied at a hooker bar (kind of like Hooters) and swears and drinks profusely. Yeah, she's not a good person... Yet, she's a "Christian"... I went to a Lutheran school when I was younger (freshman year-sophomore year.) and dated many girls from the school as a result. I was used, cheated on (seems to be a chronic thing amongst many of the 'Christian' girls I've met.), and completely ditched without explanation. They were terrible, terrible, relationships. I mean, I know that doesn't go for all Christian girls, but honestly, I've noted some truly toxic and horrendous relationships (both based on my experiences, and the experiences of my friends.) when it comes to 'Christian' girls these days. Granted, that is not always the case, as I have been with a very devoted and faithful Christian girl for a year now.
But, my point stands that, often times, Christians are really no different than the common secular person these days. Everyone is pretty much the same... Besides, being more in tune with the ancient system of beliefs now, I'm starting to realize how dedicated Jewish people are (assuming they're practicing Jews, and not just calling themselves Jews based on their heritage.). I'd date a Jewish girl any day. A Muslim girl, well, not so much, since they're inclined to hate me based on my set of beliefs. A Hindu girl, probably not, since our beliefs wouldn't coincide whatsoever... Buddhist and Atheist, I'm not sure, they both do not believe in YHWH, which is the most integral part of my life. However, many Atheists are phenomenally nice, and understanding people so long as they're not militant- and the same goes for Buddhists. I would eventually hope they would believe in God, but hey, Moses married a Pagan... So, it happened, even with the great Patriarchs. So, really, it all depends, but I'm not against it entirely.

/rambling

well thats a good example when there will come a day when some will say Lord Lord but they will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Bascially saying that not everyone that says their a christian is a christian. sorry to hear you had to go through that.
 
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