I'm having trouble with my computer so I can't seem to quote, but let me just say that God did not intend for all Christian's to be completely the same. We are each make up the different parts of the Body of Christ on Earth. For some of you, it may be completely okay to approach situations like this with violence in mind. For people like myself, it simply is not. I didn't always feel this was but Christ convicted my heart through Scripture on matters such as this, and I cannot fathom going back to the person I once was.
Let it be said that all of this is hypothetical. I have never dealt first hand with a home invader. I have however met and known quite a few home invaders, some who did it for drugs and others because they were stupid. They are people, flesh and blood, like you and I. In the context of them being a "home invader", I can tell you that my answer is still as true as it was the first time I said it, I do not believe I'd be capable of getting a gun and shooting with the intention of killing them.
As it has been said, desperate times call for desperate measures, and I'm sure that sitting here in my apartment I cannot truly expose the details of what would take place on such a hypothetical night. Would the invader be violent? Would they be a kid? Would it be a family member? Would the invader be seeking to satisfy some sexually deviant craving? I cannot assess all those options given these circumstances.
The question asks for an answer and mine was given, along with a handful of others. We do not feel that we would be able to shoot another person, especially to kill them. I hope that just like myself, that others pray upon this idea often. That if our families lives were in jeopardy that God Himself would intervene whether through us or through another person so that the right action may be taken to Glorify Him.
I will not be treated like I do not know My Savior simply because He has chosen a different path for my life than for another.