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Would this concern you?
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Well...guess what folks...there is absolutely nothing to worry about. I thought it was his Amazon Wishlist. It was NOT, even though there were a lot of things he likes on this person's by the same name of my boyfriend. Crazy, huh?
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I don't think it would be an immediate concern. I mean, I think back to some of the music I listened to when I was younger and some of it had very explicit and suggestive lyrics. Now, I don't think listening to this kind of music is a good thing or even a total non-issue. At some point these lyrics and messages DO begin to influence the listener. My advice, in the first instance, is to look for other signs that these lyrics may be affecting your boyfriend. However, the best thing you can do is communicate with him. Express your concerns to him the same way you did on this forum. If you have a healthy relationship, and I trust you do, then both of you should be fully confident that you can talk about these things face to face. If you can't, well, then you have bigger issues to worry about than what music he listens to.
God bless,
JR
God bless,
JR
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A2597
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Ah, a good ending to this one then!
Honestly though, and for "if something like this happens in the future": I'd ask him about it if it had been his wishlist. Or if you come across a weird video, or weird link, or whatever. Don't sit there and wonder, ASK!
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