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true. I posted a thread which contained something that happened to me in the past. I posted it in 2013 here. Well, i hope i live normally as i should. One thing i wish I could have in my life is communicating with a female at least that I like and who likes me as much. Thank you for your reply.you have the behavior of someone who has been abused, either emotionally or physically.
You apologizing all the time is a sign of mild ptsd from long term abuse.
Why do you feel the need to lie about what you have or have not eaten from the house?
deal with the abuse... then you will stop feeling a need to apologize.
I can think of a few possibilities. But what really is going on could be something else, and much more interesting.And the question of say was if i had eaten based on the general food which i had not. what i ate was something i bought. Thanks again for your reply. I appreciate.
I'd say I'm still learning and I'm still healing. For now i cannot think of getting know or try at all to ever get closer as they mostly boys. which is a trigger for me if i get irritated. I dont yet have like a balance in terms of being able to have a girl who i can talk to often of whom i like and who likes me. Since i dont really have a girl for now, I'll hope for GOD'S guidance as try to live.For a while I was living outside. I could walk interstate and find thrown-out food that was a better diet than what I used to buy when I had a job and I was stingy about how much I spent for food. Often stores would put out vegetables and fruit what were still fine to eat. And there was yogurt. And on we could go. Not to mention, behind a gourmet store I might find smoked salmon slices worth over ten dollars each . . . not what I might buy in the store. So, yes I could eat better . . . when eating . . . out!lolololololololol lolol
One time, I was hosted by a family, but they did not serve citrus. And I had already found a kosher store which put out turkey and fish slithers which I enjoyed. So, I would sneak off to find put-out fruit, for citrus, and I would enjoy going back to my kosher spot. But did I want to tell them I was doing this?
So, people are not the same, are we? You might enjoy really getting to know your people. And if we can grow in trust with one another, so we are not lying > Jesus wants us to love one another as family. Of course, this means with ones who are trustworthy. We need to be able to test if and how to trust each person . . . evaluating reliably . . . but not only for our own sakes, but so we trust each person the way it is good for that person to be trusted.
There are things that certain people are not ready to handle, even if they may be trustworthy. And we should not put too much on a person. But mainly trust the LORD
gentle humbleGOD'S guidance as try to live.
that's a possibility. But would it help her if she was overweight? I feel overweight if I'm right isn't a healthy weight for a person. If its not telling her at that immediate moment, i think i understand, but i feel a light form of encouraging solution would be good for her. just my thought.
Thanks for your reply. But, the trigger i talk about is not based on bad company, but is like as a result of my been abused then, i think. as i get irritated if i talk or maybe feel that I've spent too much time(which might be like even 10minutes or less) or more time talking to a male.I was abused by a boy a little older than me when i was younger. Not the type of person i have to be. a lot of stuff i dont feel like talking about. My first thread has more about it if you'd want to check.gentle humble
I think there are girls who love you, but they are quiet and pure. They are not interested in using you for what they want; but they care about loving; so you don't have to worry about if you are pleasing them or not; don't even try to, but enjoy sharing, and leave them free for their other ones they also love. So, you can simply enjoy knowing different ones of them. You don't need to have one for yourself, but appreciate knowing ones who are good examples.
But in case you are mainly around guys who can trigger trouble . . . because they are trouble . . . there are young brothers in Jesus who do not do this.
gentle and humble
@Maxsteel Thank you for sharing such personal things with us.
Yes, our enemies can be memories. But God prepares His table before us, right in the presence of our enemies . . .
He will never leave nor forsake us.
True.@Maxsteel Thank you for sharing such personal things with us.
Yes, our enemies can be memories. But God prepares His table before us, right in the presence of our enemies . . .
He will never leave nor forsake us.
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