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tigersnare

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I'm hoping someone out there can relate and help me with this particularly troubling thing in my life right now.


I have this friend, let's call him Gizmo.

Gizmo has been converted for about a year now. He goes to a Church that I used to go to. It's one of those Church, you know, has a catchy name, is getting really big, has loud crazy worship, people are getting on the floor throwing their hands in the air, projectors with lazer shows on the screen, exicting, happening place to be, beautiful people, lots of cash, large staff.......only uses a bible verse to crutch their teachings, is aimed at unsaved and new christians, pumps the babes in Christ full of vitamins and fertilizer, refuses to teach theology or doctrines, never talks about sin, only preaches the "feel good" part of the gospel....you know the church?


So Gizmo has recently been put into a leadership position at this Church, as a prayer leader. One who goes up during the alter calls and prays for others and trys to counsel them. Gizmo tells me this gives him a feeling of authority, like he could see a 90 year old man who's been walking with the lord for 60 years, and counsel him in his walk with the lord.


This is Gizmo, he doesn't know his bible very well, he almost always takes scriptures out of their context to support something, and doesn't believe in context. Skips over the stuff that doesn't "speak to him", as if Paul put "fluff" in his letters to make them longer or something.

He also does this, he has been told he is "especially sensitive to the spirit", by a woman in the Church. He will tell me what he thinks a verse means and finish it by saying, "that wasn't even me talking, that was all the spirit on that one". Also believes he has the spiritual gifts of Discernment (which we will see, he doesn't really know the meaning of), and Wisdom. Gizmo thinks I have the gift of Prophecy (which is funny becuase I don't prophesy, maybe I disern)

Here is the one that scares me, Gizmo says he's get, "a word" for someone. This "word" he says is from God. Usually supported by verses that have nothing to do with the subject of the "word". The "word" has been wrong on a couple of occasions. He is encourage by that same woman to give people the "word", and, " as long as it's out of love, so what if it's wrong, God can still do good with it."

This is where I asked the questions.....

1.What level of authority do you place these "words" on, ie, with scripture, below scripture, higher than scripture. He stumbled all over the place trying to answer.....No answer

2. How do you test the spirit from which you recieve the "word"? He had no clue, so we turned to 1John. He said he'd look into it...

3. What happens if it is wrong? He said, "it's not a big deal".....we turned to Deuteronomy 18:20. He says that doesn't apply to him....



So Gizmo is walking around acting as prophet(and not realizing it), giving people a message from God that could or could not be right. Gizmo is my brother and I'm worried about him.


Anyone have some wisdom, or been through something similar?
 

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Hello! I agree that you are right to be concerned. Very concerned. I highly recommend this book:

Orthodoxy and the Religion of the Future by Fr. Seraphim Rose.

It is the best treatment of the subject of these types of church "movements" that I have ever read.

It is available by online order from :
www.sainthermanpress.com

I will pray for your friend....
 
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I know what you mean. A lot of that is going on at my church, that's why I'm planning on leaving. Talk to him and try to get him to read something about docrine and theology. Sometimes they just get these wierd ideas in their heads, and nothing you do or say will change their minds.

I think those "seeker friendly" churches are a detriment to the Christian faith.
 
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I have seen this before too, it is not all bad. Just pray and wait. If he is in the frame of mind as you have described, he will not be receptive to anything you have to say at them moment. He just sounds a little 'overloaded' at present, you will find that when he comes out the other side of this, that he will be much the wiser and will actually have grown and will have benefited from the experience. Don't be too quick to judge or condemn him, because if he is earnestly seeking the Lord he will find him and the Lord will truly guide him.

Bless Ya
Col :) <><
 
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You are right to feel concerned, but it will probably pass. Your friend is very young in the faith (and, I'm guessing, in life as well?). It's not uncommon for new Christians to want to be born-again again. And again, and again. But it doesn't work that way. Once you're born, you need to grow. See if you can get your friend to join you in Bible studies and prayer meetings in other settings. It's always a tragedy to see a new believer waste away spiritually by trying to live on baby food when he's ready for meat.

Also, take care not to be too judgemental of his church. There are few churches which survive for any length of time if there is no substance to sustain them. His style of worship is clearly not yours (or mine). But I've attended such churches and have generally found a firm foundation under the flashy show.
 
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tigersnare said:
He goes to a Church that I used to go to. It's one of those Church, .... pumps the babes in Christ full of vitamins and fertilizer, ....the "feel good" part of the gospel....you know the church?

"yes"





Anyone have some wisdom, or been through something similar


The problem is not your brother, but the church that is allowing him to be in that position and the members who are instilling false concepts into his Christian walk. As long as he has the support of whose he sees as "christians leaders", you probably won't see a change.


"test the spirits".

and keep using your sword (the Word of God)... it will not return void

and pray.

~serapha~
 
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Yes you have reason to be concerned and valid reasons at that! My advice to you is to pray. The Lord sees his heart on this matter and I am sure has plans for him. Problem with most is that people forget to be humble enough to listen. Not just to others but to God. You could tell him that he should compare everything he knows to scripture. Meaning always test your thoughts against the Word of God. Because God is not the author of confusion. There is no need for translation if you go to him with your heart and soul in prayer, He will lead you to the information you need.

I will include you in my prayers!:)
 
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