J
Jenster
Guest
Hello! I'd appreciate prayer for emotional protection and patience. A person on my ministry team (who had been interested in me) is psychologically troubled. He's got a lot of past hurts that he's never dealt with and have hardened his heart. But he is too proud to admit this.
In working with him on the team, he seems to be taking out his anger on me through snide comments, degrading my ideas, etc.
I would like to have support in this situation, but am concerned about bringing this to the rest of our ministry team, who are all men. I'm not at all convinced these particular guys could handle or help resolve a conflict situation.
I will try to stay away from this person, but would appreciate prayer for some sort of intervention in this, as well as protection from him and patience on my part.
In the past, I already made the effort to resolve one situation with this person. But he has expectations I will never be able to meet, and he did not appear to gain any insight into himself since last time. He is manipulative and angry. I feel stuck.
In working with him on the team, he seems to be taking out his anger on me through snide comments, degrading my ideas, etc.
I would like to have support in this situation, but am concerned about bringing this to the rest of our ministry team, who are all men. I'm not at all convinced these particular guys could handle or help resolve a conflict situation.
I will try to stay away from this person, but would appreciate prayer for some sort of intervention in this, as well as protection from him and patience on my part.
In the past, I already made the effort to resolve one situation with this person. But he has expectations I will never be able to meet, and he did not appear to gain any insight into himself since last time. He is manipulative and angry. I feel stuck.
His favor surrounds you as a shield, He sets right your path and gives you grace to deal with this person, and also opens the eyes of your teammates to see what is going on. Persevere! Fight the good fight of faith (just not with the guy
Thank you and bless you, akasmom. I was just spending some time alone, stewing over this situation (oops), and the Lord helped me realize why it is creating such anxiety for me. This person is treating me with disrespect, and I started feeling victimized and helpless -- maybe even as though I am to blame for something. Fortunately, the Lord reminded me of the truth. This person may think he can manipulate my emotions, but he's barking up the wrong tree. God is my rock. In faith, I will believe that God is using this situation for His purposes. 
