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I don't currently have a Church to go to. There is one I am scoping out to go to soon though.
I have no family to speak of. Just my Mom. I have only friends I've met on the internet. I hope that this does not deter one from dating me and they date me for who I am, and not who I associate, or don't associate with.
No, I don't think we're talking about the same type of person.
See you would hopefully introduce someone you're dating to your mum though. And friends on the internet count in my opinion.
It's just a yellow flag when someone won't really introduce you to their life. Or won't make an effort to incorporate you at all.
No Jennie, no one should be deterred from dating you. You're fabulous dahhhling
In my experience somebody who doesnt talk about their family at all my have something to hide.
While I dont always get along with my family members, I still love them and acknowledge them and he ought to as well.
As for friends, you cannot be your dates ONLY friend as thats unhealthy. It is often tempting to be THAT person, but if he doesnt have a friend in Jesus, apart from you...that also is a red flag.
Its ok i wasnt meaning you specifically CS although FB doesnt necessarily mean true friends. He could know heaps of people but be utterly alone cos he only knows them through work..having lots of friends also is not a good indicator he could be superficial.
But anyway. If you concerned over your break up and he doesnt want to tell you why you could ask his friends whats going on.
Oh I know!He seems well rounded in his life, he has work friends, a big church family, a tight knit family (mom, dad, brother, aunts, uncles, etc).
You do raise a good point though, about having a lot of friends indicating he could be superficial. There seems to be people who just want to add people to facebook just to make their friends list large and look good to others.This not really directed at him, but I have noticed this with some people.
So sorry I am late replying to this, I honestly did not see this until just now.
The reason we never had any conflicts is because we were so much alike, we agreed on all the big stuff. Everything else just didn't seem to matter.
Looking back I do see some warning signs, but honestly I stilll feel it was out of thin air that he broke up with me. The warning signs I see now aren't necessarily ones that would lead me to the conclusion that he was going to break up with me.
We had disagreements, but we didn't get mad at each other over them. We talked through things, we had long conversations about whatever was on our minds. I never felt uncomfortable to come talk to him about anything on my mind. And the things I felt frustrated over - well... He would explain them so well, it would make sense and I had no reason to be frustrated.
I felt like when we got married we would have a strong relationship because ours had a foundation of talking things out and God. *Shrugs* Lol
The only thing I can think of in regards to why someone wouldn't want to date me, besides finding me unattractive I guess, is that I'm too quiet.
^Which is probably why I'm only guessing because nobody approaches me due mostly to my quietness. Haha #losing
If he shows you baby photos of himself, that can tell you a lot about him.
Baby photos are a mother's best material for blackmail. Be kind to your girlfriends, guys, and the baby photos will stay safely tucked away.
Well, unless I get ahold of them, then they'll be displayed all over the place.
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