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I have depression. I also have social anxiety disorder.

Does ANYONE here ever get so upset and worried, that it makes you sick to your stomach? I mean literally. Like yesterday... and right now. I'm so upset about this one thing, that I feel like I'm going to throw up. And it happens to me kinda often...

Does anyone else get this? Is there something really wrong with me?
 

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Dawn Marie said:
I have depression. I also have social anxiety disorder.

Does ANYONE here ever get so upset and worried, that it makes you sick to your stomach? I mean literally. Like yesterday... and right now. I'm so upset about this one thing, that I feel like I'm going to throw up. And it happens to me kinda often...

Does anyone else get this? Is there something really wrong with me?

Yes, I have it bad. I do actually throw up. Whenever I get stressed, It's to the point, where I have tension headaches, I have to have my back popped every month, because so much tension is built up in there, it causes me to have really bad migraines and headaches. And It took me awhile to do this, but I started wondering, is this all worth it? Is what I'm stressing over worth it? Is it worth my sufferings and my health? And I had to learn, that I'm trying to be God. I'm trying to handle things my own way, and God is looking down at me and saying, "Child, give it to me." And I'm going, "No, No, No God. you don't understand. What happens if things gets out of control. Then what?". And God says, "Trust me. If you love me, have faith in Me. I've already said I'd never forsake you or leave you. Now believe in me. I love you, because if I didn't I wouldn't have sent my Son to die for you". And that's what we have to do. It's hard, I know it is, but if we do it ourselves, we'll just mess it up even worse. So let God carry your load. He knows what He is doing. He's done it since the beginning of time. REALLY!!!!!!!!! lol God bless.


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God always hears our prayers. Sometimes he just tells us to wait. Here's a poem I posted a few days ago. I hope you like it. God bless you.
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Wait


Desperately, helplessly, longingly, I cried:

Quietly, patiently, lovingly God replied.

I pled and I wept for a clue to my fate,

And the Master so gently said, "Child, you must wait."

"Wait? You say, wait!" my indignant reply.

"Lord, I need answers, I need to know why!

Is your hand shortened? Or have you not heard?

By Faith, I have asked, and am claiming your Word.

My future and all to which I can relate

hangs in the balance, and YOU tell me to WAIT?

I'm needing a 'yes', a go-ahead sign,

or even a 'no' to which I can resign.

And Lord, You promised that if we believe

we need but to ask, and we shall receive.

And Lord, I've been asking, and this is my cry:

I'm weary of asking! I need a reply!

Then quietly, softly, I learned of my fate

As my Master replied once again, "You must wait."

So, I slumped in my chair, defeated and taut

and grumbled to God, "So, I'm waiting ... for what?"

He seemed, then, to kneel, and His eyes wept with mine,

And he tenderly said, "I could give you a sign.

I could shake the heavens, and darken the sun.

I could raise the dead, and cause mountains to run.

All you seek, I could give, and pleased you would be.

You would have what you want~~But, you wouldn't know Me.

You'd not know the depth of My love for each saint;

You'd not know the power that I give to the faint;

You'd not learn to see through the clouds of despair;

You'd not learn to trust just by knowing I'm there;

You'd not know the joy of resting in Me

When darkness and silence were all you could see.

You'd never experience that fullness of love

As the peace of My Spirit descends like a dove;

You'd know that I give and I save ... (for a start),

But you'd not know the depth of the beat of My heart.

The glow of My comfort late into the night,

The faith that I give when you walk without sight,

The depth that's beyond getting just what you asked

Of an infinite God, who makes what you have LAST.

You'd never know, should your pain quickly flee,

What it means that "My grace is sufficient for Thee."

Yes, your dreams for your loved one overnight would come true,

But, Oh, the Loss! If I lost what I'm doing in you!

So, be silent, My Child, and in time you will see

That the greatest of gifts is to get to know Me.

And though oft' may My answers seem terribly late,

My most precious answer of all is still, "WAIT."

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I'm a rather anxious and self-conscious person, myself...
I haven't gotten to the point where I become nauseous, yet... Or have I? I do feel rather sick when in the prescence of people who I 'know' will be mean to me.
I gain a lot of comfort and confidence when I ask God for protection. And I actually am protected, I believe. Nobody does anything mean to me while I'm protected, it seems.
I'm still self-conscious and nervous, however, but to a lesser degree.
I don't have an instant cure for social anxiety... So, I can't really help you, I'm afraid.

By the way... To the poster of 'Wait'... Beautiful poem. Everything flows smoothly, and it's all so very true. I hope you don't mind if I save a copy to read when I'm feeling a little gloomy, myself.
 
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Merulotte said:
I'm a rather anxious and self-conscious person, myself...
I haven't gotten to the point where I become nauseous, yet... Or have I? I do feel rather sick when in the prescence of people who I 'know' will be mean to me.
I gain a lot of comfort and confidence when I ask God for protection. And I actually am protected, I believe. Nobody does anything mean to me while I'm protected, it seems.
I'm still self-conscious and nervous, however, but to a lesser degree.
I don't have an instant cure for social anxiety... So, I can't really help you, I'm afraid.

By the way... To the poster of 'Wait'... Beautiful poem. Everything flows smoothly, and it's all so very true. I hope you don't mind if I save a copy to read when I'm feeling a little gloomy, myself.
Not at all, that's what it's there for. God bless you!!!


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Dawn Marie said:
I have depression. I also have social anxiety disorder.

Does ANYONE here ever get so upset and worried, that it makes you sick to your stomach? I mean literally. Like yesterday... and right now. I'm so upset about this one thing, that I feel like I'm going to throw up. And it happens to me kinda often...

Does anyone else get this? Is there something really wrong with me?

I have been before, but it's not that common. I've been getting colds more frequently this past year, though. I think anxiety is partially to blame.

Remember, Dawn, I'm here for you (like always). :hug:
 
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In the past years, each time I finish eating or sometimes while I'm eating, I will vomit everything out and sometimes, when I'm walking down the street, I would throw up whenever I'm very upset, stressed up, depressed and so on. I throw up more than 10 times a day and sometimes, I'm down with diarrahoe as well. As time goes by, I started to have blotted stomach that makes me look I'm as if 4 months pregnant. Now, everything had settled down and I would like to share and encourage you to get this over. :)

I started to read the Bible daily, pray often and fellowship with fellow believers. I began to grow in the Lord and lift things up to the Lord because He had asked us to trust Him. In all things, lift it to the Lord and He will guide our path. I started to have faith in Him and I realised that I'm much more a person with less anger these days. I took about seven years before I got out from all these. Why don't you give it a try? ;)

Trust, trust in the Lord
Lean not on your own understanding
In all, all of your ways,
acknowledge Him, He'll make your path straight

All things are possible with God! (Luke 18:27)
 
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Dawn Marie said:
I have depression. I also have social anxiety disorder.

Does ANYONE here ever get so upset and worried, that it makes you sick to your stomach? I mean literally. Like yesterday... and right now. I'm so upset about this one thing, that I feel like I'm going to throw up. And it happens to me kinda often...

Does anyone else get this? Is there something really wrong with me?
Right now, and almost steadily since midway through Sunday, I've felt like that. It happens every now and then, and I just feel absolutely sick. At moments, all I could do to not throw up was to bite down on my wrist, breaking skin, and leaving bite marks for almost a week. It's very frustrating, and scary at times.

I don't know what I have. Probably depression, maybe some other stuff. I'm on Lexapro, but I don't know if it does that much. I mean, I've taken it every day for the last couple weeks, and today, I'm not certain if I've ever felt worse than I do at this very moment. At least not in years.

It's odd. You could probably track my mood through where I spend most of my time online. Through most of the summer, I was rather heavily into political debates and such. Then, life seemed to be working out well, and I was into the "life stages" and poetry forums. Now, it's off to the depression forums.
 
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God's message to us throughout the bible is that we should not be afraid and that we should trust in him. Obviously if God tells us not to be afraid then it is in our control not worry or stress out over life's battles. I beleive the first step to getting rid of anxiety in your life is to confess to God that you have not been trusting in him and to commit to him that you will from now on. Our bodies were only designed to handle the stresses of today. No wonder they shut down when we focus on the imaginary stresses of tomorrow. We are making ourselves sick by making our bodies do something they weren't designed to do.

Why are you so worried right now? Did God suddenly fall off his throne and put you in charge of the world?

Be careful not to listen to the lies that the enemy is feeding you. Ask God to give you disernment regarding your self talk and what others say to you. If you are listening to lies then your body will suffer.

"The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly." Proverbs 18:8

The devil is a talebearer.

Watch your mouth closely;be careful about what you say.

"Death and life are in the power of the tongue; and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." Proverbs18:21
 
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