I have committed homosexual actions and have not repented, this is my biggest worry.
I reread my earlier post and decided to say it better. Repentance is basically turning from sins and practicing God's Law. Not for salvation, but as a part of your faith, for your faith in the Word of God says that your sin will condemn you; but your faith in the Word of God says that if you turn from your sins you will not be condemned. Christ taught that Sin leads to death, and Christ is the Word of God made flesh (John 1:14). Christ said, "Unless you repent you will surely perish" (Luke 13:3).
All sin is evil, and Paul described homosexual actions as evil:
"Men left natural relations with women and burned in their lust toward one another, doing what is shameful with men, and receiving in themselves the due penalty of their error" (Romans 1:27).
To repent, take the things that cause you to sin and lust, and throw them out; cut them off. Then replace them with prayer, the bible, or Christian pastor videos (I'll put links to some below). Replace your sinful ways with God's Law; focus on your lust, replacing it, when it comes, with holiness. God is Holy, and so He is ceremonialy, morally, and spiritually, for lack of a better word, "clean". God commanded us to "Be Holy, because He is Holy" (Leviticus 19:2; 1 Peter 1:16). All sin is unholy. Therefore homosexuality is unholy; and "without holiness we will not see God" (Hebrews 12:14).
But this is not to say that one sin makes you unholy in such a way that condemns you, nor that you are condemned for one, or even a hundred sins. Only God decides when you've sinned to much. David sinned multiple "mortal" sins, but still He received the undeserved forgiveness of sins (which is a part of grace); Moses sinned by not striking a rock in the way that God instructed Him to, thus, dishonoring God, yet He was still forgiven! However, concerning David, there was repentance, confession, prayer, a plea for cleansing, and conviction (example: Psalm 51).
The Law of God is a way of life that will not condemn us, unlike the ways of Sin, which are contrary to God's Law. What a glorious thing! God gave us a way to live without condemnation! Consider this: sin condemns us, but the Law of God does not. Without the Word of God, including the Law of God, we will never get to God. All sin is unholy; without holiness we will not see God. The breaking of the Law of God is sin (Romans 7:7), and therefore it only makes sense to go to the Law of God if we want to avoid condemnation.
Of course, this coming to the Law of God is to be a part of faith, and many will accuse me of promoting a works based salvation due to this that I say, but I seek God's approval, not the approval of man. I know that not even I am saved by works, but by my original faith; and not even that! I am saved by grace through faith; faith was God's means to grant me grace, otherwise faith becomes a work and I have something to boast about. But God's grace is what saved.
What I am saying to you is turn from your evil and turn to good, knowing that you will not be saved by your works but by grace through faith in Christ, who is the Word of God and taught all that I am telling you now to Paul, John, Peter, etc. And Christ couldn't have taught anything different, for He is the Word of God and the Word of God cannot contradict itself.
And remember that if you are being disciplined (and fear of condemnation can be a part of discipline, as it is/was for me), that is proof that you are loved by God. What does Proverbs 3:12 say? "Those whom Yehowah loves, He chastens." It shows beyond a doubt that you are still saved. But the discipline is not because He hates you, but because He loves you, and will save you and bring you to holiness.
Pauline Paradox (plus more):
Pauline Paradox (plus more) - YouTube
I hope this helps. Remember Godly sorrow leads to repentance and a harvest of righteousness. God bless you and grant you repentance. P. M. Me if you want talk.
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