Worldly and godly sorrow

[TenthAveN]

This has always been a challenge for me, and I think it would be a good topic to address in this forum. I’ve always had the problem of only wanting to be saved for fear of eternal destruction, and it’s always bothered me that I’m so shallow and self-centered. Would you say that faith in Jesus is the difference between worldly and godly sorrow?

 

[Phil W]

This has always been a challenge for me, and I think it would be a good topic to address in this forum. I’ve always had the problem of only wanting to be saved for fear of eternal destruction, and it’s always bothered me that I’m so shallow and self-centered. Would you say that faith in Jesus is the difference between worldly and godly sorrow?

As the verse (2 Cor 7:10), with those two types of sorrow both concern repentance (from sin), it seems to me that the longevity of the "turn from" sin would be the yardstick of godly and worldly sorrow.
If your sorrow for something is godly, you won't ever do it again.

 

[Jord Simcha]

I’ve always had the problem of only wanting to be saved for fear of eternal destruction,

That's pretty normal, I think.

and it’s always bothered me that I’m so shallow and self-centered.

I don't think it's shallow. When it comes to your own salvation your self-interest is important.

Would you say that faith in Jesus is the difference between worldly and godly sorrow?

Perhaps, though I wouldn't say faith in Jesus changed my sorrows much. More so than that, my love has changed. So I would say faith in Jesus makes a (big) difference in how you love.

 

[Tolworth John]

I’ve always had the problem of only wanting to be saved for fear of eternal destruction

Jesus knew what you are like when he chose you before creation, he knew why you would respond to the offer of salvation and he still went to Calvary for you, he still offered you salvation.

May I suggest that you show your gratitude by your obedience to him.
If Jesus is happy that you are saved and isn't bothered by your motives, why are you?