Greeting to all in the name of the Lord Jesus.
in response to the OP, and not having read all of the post.
Romans 16:1 " I commend unto you Phebe our sister, which is a servant of the church which is at Cenchrea: 2 That ye receive her in the Lord, as becometh saints, and that ye assist her in whatsoever business she hath need of you: for she hath been a succourer of many, and of myself also".
the word commend speak al lot as to her recomendation.
G4921 ???????? sunistao (soon-is-tah'-o) (or (strengthened) sunistano soon-is-tan'-o, or sunistemi soon-is'-tay-mee) v.
1. to set together
2. (by implication) to introduce (favorably)
3. (figuratively) to exhibit
4. (intransitively) to stand near
5. (figuratively) to constitute
[from G4862 and G2476 (including its collateral forms)]
KJV: approve, commend, consist, make, stand (with)
but the revealing word is "succourer", in verse 2. here, according to Mickelson's Enhanced Strong's Greek and Hebrew Dictionaries it's the word, succourer
G4368 ????????? prostatis (pros-tat'-is) n.
1. a patroness, i.e. assistant
[feminine of a derivative of G4291]
KJV: succourer
Root(s): G4291
The KJV renders it here as succourer, Why?. this word succourer, (G4368 ????????? prostatis), is the feminine of, proistemi G4291 ????????? proistemi, which is for the male in that position.
G4291 ????????? proistemi (pro-is"'-tay-mee) v.
1. to stand before
2. (in rank) to preside
3. (by implication) to practise
[from G4253 and G2476]
KJV: maintain, be over, rule
Root(s): G4253, G2476
G4291 ????????? proistemi is used for those who have rule over us. example in scripture, 1 Thessalonians 5:12 "And we beseech you, brethren, to know them which labour among you, and are over you in the Lord, and admonish you".
so our sister Phebe is the female equivalent to male G4291 ????????? proistem. who preside, and have "the rule over". that is clear.
but also in Roman 16: 3 "Greet Priscilla and Aquila my helpers in Christ Jesus". Priscilla, along with her husband is label as "HELPERS", or "ASSISTANT".
Helper, G4904 ???????? sunergos (soon-er-gos') adj.
1. a co-laborer, i.e. coadjutor
[from a presumed compound of G4862 and the base of G2041]
KJV: companion in labour, (fellow-)helper(-labourer, -worker), labourer together with, workfellow
Root(s): G4862, G2041
get a dictionary and find out what a coadjutor is, according to dictionary.com, a coadjutor
1. an assistant.
2. an assistant to a bishop or other ecclesiastic.
3. a bishop who assists another bishop, with the right of succession.
Priscilla and Aquila was in leadership positions. and our sister Phebe was already an assistance to the apostle Paul. go back to the definition of succoure. she was commended for the next position, "Bishop". she had already served faithfully as a deacon. now commended for that higher position, for she was a succourer of many, and of the apostle Paul also. now the apostle Paul is recommending the appoint of this woman for that position. remember Paul is an apostle, do he not have the right to appoint Elders, Bishops?. YES. so was this woman appointed. did she not carry the letter to the church at Rome?. there is much more to this woman, and other women as well. but here in this chapter a woman is being appointed to a leadership role right under our noses. just do the research.
"Where there is knowledge stay not ignorant"