God blessed drunkards, tax collectors, etc...
Yes; Jesus ate and drank with these people, certainly. He also called a tax collector to be one of his 12 disciples. God loves everyone.
He makes the best of a bad situation.
As he is actively calling women to serve him in this way, he is not "making the best of a bad situation."
If God was really opposed to women leading churches, he could raise up men to do it; Jesus said he could raise up worshippers from stones, so why not Ministers from men. He would not break his own commands, if women not being ordained WAS a command, or tolerate Christians sinning in order to have leaders in his church.
G Christ Dying for us was the ultimate, "no no", but was made the greatest triumph.
?? No it wasn't; it was God's plan from the beginning.
It was prophesied in the Garden of Eden, and throughout the Scriptures; Peter called Jesus the Lamb chosen from the foundation of the world, and Jesus said that that was why he had come.
From the disciples' p.o.v. it was a tragedy at the time - because they didn't understand about the resurrection. But the cross wasn't a "no, no" - not at all.
Not sure you should use results to justify that position.
Well yes, actually.
Firstly, when did you ever see God bless sin in the OT? When his people lied, disobeyed and dishonoured his name, he punished them. If women Ministers are lying when they stand in the pulpit and say, "God called me"; why doesn't he reprimand them/send the Spirit to correct them, rather than having them stand and publicly proclaim a lie? Why allow them to continue in Ministry, maybe for many years, preaching the Good News, teaching others to know Christ, ministering to the sick, helping people grow in their faith, and so on?
Secondly, if this call to ministry isn't from God, who is it from? As I said before the devil has no interest in leading people to Christ, or helping them find God. And if it's from the women's own desires, it's unlikely it would survive the rigorous testing and selection process. Selection is a tough process - even for men. Women have to also deal with the family situation and possible questions/guilt about having/caring for children. And, though their church would be sympathetic, a woman candidate coming on to a site like this would also have to deal with being called a feminist/disobedient sinner/deluded person; persecutions from their own brethren in Christ. I can't imagine someone wanting to put themselves through that for something which was just their own idea.
To be honest, I'm totally undecided on the issue. I see merits to both sides. This issue is a nonessential so we have room for discussion.
It's not essential for salvation, true. People on both sides of the debate will get to heaven to find their "opponents" there.
But for the female Christian women who are born again, filled with the Spirit, love God, desire to serve him and believe that this is what he is calling them to do; it is essential. It may be for the churches too. If the church cannot, in all conscience, allow a woman to do this, they may go elsewhere.
On his example though, Satan would most assuredly use a "good" action to accomplish a worse result.
Sorry but I don't believe that.
I doubt that he would, or could, call a woman to preach the Gospel - apart from anything else, the first thing that someone who is called does, is to pray and ask for assurance that this is from God. Training involves listening to God, studying the Scriptures, meditating and praying. The devil is not going to want someone to do that, and would be very unwilling to preach the cross and help others to hear the Gospel. I have never yet heard of a woman being ordained and her turning round and saying "aha, that was from Satan; now I can destroy the church and lead others into devil worship."