Will your love for one another gradually fades?

[Stolic]

My fiancee and I have been dating for almost 7 years now. For a very long time I am able to stand all the things that he says or he does. However, ever since I go to church I feel our thinking and what we value are totally different. (he doesnt' belive in God, his family only believe in themselves) One day I feel I don't love him any more and this feeling scares me a lot. I don't know what happened and I'm now scared to be married to him. I lost faith in our future and I'm not sure if I really want to be with him any more.

I pray to God everyday hoping to get an answer or hoping that God can lead me to my destiny. I really want to know what is happening to me. I feel that I betrayed my fiancee.

My prayers are with you flufbrown.

I pray that God will give you an answer quickly, but please remember this, you have NOT betrayed your fiance.

God presents us with hard choices to make on a regular basis, and at this point you have chosen to follow God, while sadly your fiance has not. This understandably changes the balance that you originally had, as you are both now looking towards different spiritual goals.

It is a hard thing, but please, please do not take a sense of betrayal into your thinking - pray for strength and focus to make the right decision - know this - I am doing the same for you.

Much love to you flufbrown
Stolic

 

[Lludmila]

To the OP, that feeling of euphoria, "in love," gradually diminishes, then it resurfaces if you are patient and give it enough time. Lots of people don't know that and thus the relationship ends. But it does.